Could he be cheating?

Question

Lately my fiancee has been going into work early and working more than usual, and I always catch him look at other women and it makes me feel like crap, could he be cheating on me? What are some other signs I should look for?

Answer 1

First you need to make sure that his employer isn't making him work more hours. Don't jump to conclusions just because he is working more and might be looking at other girls. But you should always go with your gut feeling. Think to yourself...is he more distant than usual...and if all else fails talk to him. You will never have a long lasting relationship is there is not any trust or communication. Good luck.

Answer 2

Chances are if you are feeling so insecure that something is wrong in your relationship but in my own experience my gut/woman's intuition is rarely wrong.
Tell him he's being disrespectful by checking out other girls when you are together.
But then get real cheating or not men will always look.
Can't tell what you should look out for because if you are in this mode you will no doubt misinterpret whatever you find to suit you.Besides I'd say never go snooping around in his stuff if you feel the need to do this You have some serious trust issues that you need to work out before you marry him.

Answer 3

Covert action will in all likely-hood blow up in your face. Don't do anything except talk with him honestly. If his reaction is negative or he gets angry, then the possibility that he is seeing someone else is out there. However remember he's getting married as well and his emotions may be working overtime just as yours seem to be. If your marriage is to work you must have communication about anything and should have no problems speaking directly and honestly. Listen to your heart and don't let others influence how you feel. Unless you actually catch him in the act, assume innocence.

Answer 4

Maybe he is working extra to save up money for the wedding. The only way you will really know is to investigate a little. One day when he's working late, why not drive by his job and see if he is there ? Looking at women means nothing. ALL men look at other women. All of them.

Answer 5

do you tell him? maybe ask him why he looks at other women. one day pop up at his job and see what happens and if you see nothing, make sure you bring lunch,dinner, or something, and say you wanted to have lunch with him. and if you still feel like he's cheating then leave him, if he comes back then your meant to be. but if not im sorry, some one better is out there for you.

Answer 6

Well you cant really tell by him just looking at ppl have you told him that you've caught in the act? and him working late your going to get married so he might just be saving more money for something special. don't worry unless he makes really drastic changes.

Answer 7

What is his money situation? Does he have less than usual? Look in his cell phone for TXT and strange numbers. Follow him to work or get a friend to. ASK HIM!!!

Answer 8

If he's on the phone then he stops talking when you come in and if he's being of with you. He could be cheating.

Answer 9

Well if his paycheck isn't reflecting the extra time then you need to start looking at the possibilty. If his check reflects it then your worrying for no reason.

Answer 10

sounds possible. call him at work, check the credit card statement, look at his cell, spy a little. it will put your mind at ease and if he is it is better to know now.