Yesterday I asked if people thought it was wrong if I had others hit a guy that pointed a gun at my boyfriend the night he died. I wrote fit but I ment hit sorry. So I'm going to ask it again. My boyfriend died seven months ago and the night he died this guy I went to high school with (we are no longer in high school) pointed a gun at him. I have had this person hit alot for what he did. The police already talked to him and they said he didn't mean to point a gun at him in the parking lot. Very time I see him he starts laughing at me. So then one of my friend hits. The police won't do anything so I feel like I have to. Is this right or wrong?
2006-06-28 05:39:16 · 28 answers · asked by lex83201 3 in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
i think that it's natural to want to retaliate when someone hurts us or the ones we care about...i also think that one of the steps of the grieving process is anger, so this too is natural...that being said, i personally don't believe that violence solves any problem...this person sounds like a real winner-why stoop to his level? do you really want to become what you dislike so much in him? going after this kid is not going to bring your bf back-it will only make you and your "henchmen" thugs like him...besides-why mess with someone who clearly has access to a gun? my advice is to steer clear of this kid! remember all the good things about your bf and keep him alive in your heart and memory-don't lower yourself to the level of this wanna-be!!! be better than this and learn the lesson your boyfriend's death presented you, which is that everyone's death hurts SOMEONE...if things went too far with this kid and your friends got a little aggressive and the kid ended up dying, his mom or grandma or dad or gf would feel the way you feel about your bf's death...keep your karma clean and keep yourself out of trouble!!!
2006-06-28 05:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by jennifer y 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WRONG! If I'm not mistaken, the legal system of this country frowns on taking matters into your own hands. You may get into trouble by "hitting this guy or even requiring your friends to do it in your behalf. When you strike someone it is called "battery". You could be arrested, because it's against the law. If you strike someone who has not struck you first it is called "assault and battery" and again you (or whoever) would be arrested if this guy decides to file charges. I know there are a lot of things that happen in life that are just not right or fair. Use the legal system the right way for revenge. If that does not satisfy you, or work in your favor, you must remember that our (Bible) teachings tell us that some day this guy will have to answer for his wrong-doings and it is not up to us.
2006-06-28 05:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by singasong 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wrong. I can understand how you feel, but having this person hit isn't bringing your boyfriend back, now is it? Did he die from a gunshot wound? If so, maybe this other guy knows or has an idea who did it. Focus on how to bring the truth to light, don't chase after revenge, it will only bring you more pain. Honor your boyfriend's memory by doing the right thing.
2006-06-28 05:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by diana c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-15 09:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think its a right thing to do. becus he can take you to court saying you are assulting him. so let me get this straight since i didnt understand how you wrote your story. this guy pointed a gun at your boyfriend and shot him? and your saying the police arent doing anything about it? why? do they not have enough evidence to arest this guy?
but enough if he did that. i think you should learn to forgive and let this go. stop hitting him and stop asking others to hit him. leave him alone. i know that he did a bad thing and its mean of him to laugh when he sees you. but if you continue to annoy him and bother him then im sure he will continue to laugh at you and make you even more mad at him.
just ignore him and you will learn to let go of this. im sorry for your lose and i hope you will becom a stronger person to move on.
2006-06-28 05:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by All4Christ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, it will not bring your boyfriend back or make your grief any less at his loss. Getting this guy hit is at best a very short-term way of feeling any better for a few moments. And I don't think it does really make you feel any better, or you wouldn't be writing this question.
Baby-steps first, but you need to find a way of moving on and away from this situation in your life, finding ways that help you grieve properly and get on with your life best you can.
2006-06-28 05:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by aliantha2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What killed your boyfriend? You keep saying the other guy pointed a gun at him, but you don't actually say he shot your boyfriend.
If this guy just pointed a gun at him, you should get over it. Even if he did shoot your boyfriend, you should get over it. All of this hitting obviously only eggs him on to laugh at you.
2006-06-28 06:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by KittyK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the wrong.He wins each time you do that.Stop letting him win!!!! The next time he laughs at you , smile and say have a nice day,God bless you,i forgive you. Choose to be the architect in your life.Be the change. Create a space were people are supportive of each other and don't hit,shoot,kill or otherwise harm one another. Peace be with you.
2006-06-28 06:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by wildrover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong, two wrongs do not make it right. You could get yourself in a lot of trouble and will regret it later. Do not let this guy bother you. No matter what you do he will still do what he is doing. You have to get through the pain and put it behind you.
2006-06-28 05:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by barbii_greeneyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were mature enough to know the difference between right or wrong, you could answer your own question. You're old enough, but you still need to grow up and forget the little kid stuff. Learn how to be a responsible adult or you are destined to a miserable life.
2006-06-28 06:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by Robert K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋