He likes me to smack him, but how much do I do? When his skin goes red or before? He says he likes me to do that to him, but it hurts my hand, so I started using a slipper.
I don't want to damage his skin, so when do I know when to stop?
2006-06-28 05:32:09 · 18 answers · asked by kway_tzar 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Injuries
If you are not comfortable then don't do it. Or only do it to the point you are comfortable with. Figure out a codeword that he can use when it gets too much and stop when he says it, explain to him before that though that if you get to a point, say when his skin is getting red or blistering or whatever, that even if he hasn't used the code word, you will stop. My ex liked to be scratched, really scratched, but I would only do it to the point where he had scratch marks, to me, breaking the skin was not on, even though he liked it. We stuck to the above, he never used the codeword, but we were both comfortable with what we did and it was a lot of fun.
2006-06-28 05:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by Tefi 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
when he tells you to! If he is'nt bothered about his skin being damaged why should you be? He obviously gets more pleasure from the smacking thing. You've got to take the good with the bad as they say. Happy smacking!
2006-06-29 17:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if you don't want to slap him then don't. But if he does go for it and beat the crap out of him. Then start using leather whips, move on to brass knuckles, metal spikes, electrical wires, battery cables on the nipples, high heels to crush his nuts, don't forget to put the red ball with the leather strap in his mouth. The skin will bruise, but it will heal. If he likes scars you should have no problem. The use of these devices should protect your hands, but if he still insists on being slapped after all that use leather gloves. It will protect your hands. Good luck and have fun.
2006-06-28 12:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by mcwhorsd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What planet are Sandy and lilil ace on? Since when has having a fetish been some sort of disease you need to get help for! Quit judging!
To answer the question - if your relationship's healthy you should be able to dicuss it and as said previously, agree on a word (but not the word stop) that means he wants you to stop.
2006-06-28 12:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people have different sexual needs and different pain thresholds so you may think there is a lot of pain but to your boyfriend the plain is pleasure which he likes a lot...
if you are comfortable with giving the pain and the both of you agree a safe word to say when either of you want to stop...then if you both enjoy it, well carry on.
And if you boyfriend wants, try a cheese grater. He definitely know enough is enough with that...
2006-06-29 05:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by realdragonflame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if he enjoys it, that's fine. Tell him you're worried though incase you're hurting him. He seems fine enough with it from what you're saying though, so don't worry! I've had my boyfriend's belt across my ar*e a few times through (my) request and it's a nice feeling!!!! By the way, I loved the last comment to your question about the frying pan!!! LoL
2006-06-28 12:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont smack him. Sounds like boyfriend got too many spankings when he was a kid, No more. He needs mental help.
2006-06-28 12:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by Dumb-Dumb D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work out a signal beforehand that when he gives it,it's time to stop.
2006-06-28 12:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by katiebreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People pay good money to have that done, i suggest you start charging him then you'll both get more value!
2006-06-29 06:11:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he starts smacking u back.
2006-06-29 16:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋