2006-06-28 05:21:20 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i have been in a similar situation... personally I stopped seeing him, cause my friendship was worth more
2006-06-28 05:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by ...o(_insert witty comment_) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite her for a 3sum?
not sure really. i think it depends a lot on their breakup. hope you had nothing to do with it.
if she is a friend then she will take it ok but, maybe you will never speak to each other again.
i am now dating a friends ex. we dont speak, i miss him but she is so worth it. my ex does not speak to me or my new girlf either.
the road of love is a bumpy ride with many potholes and dangerous junctions.
you just have to make the choice of who goes on that journey with you and if your friends are at the end of the journey when you get there then its a bonus. you will make new friends along the way too though.
dont be suprised if she throws a wobbler at you, its a tabboo area realy init!!
good luck and remember, its all about what you want. make the choices that are right for you.
2006-07-12 00:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by squalalala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rule is Friends don't do that! No with an ex not with a current not in the future, not ever! There is so many people out there find a new one. Unless you don't care about your friendship.
2006-07-10 04:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by metalicgirl69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the true is that u don't have to do this she's ur friend and a good friend dosn't act like this imagine that she knows u'r cheating her the relation between u will be broken if i were u i'd not get out with her ex but don't say the truth it can destroy ure relationship and she can hate u too and it's the worst thing!
2006-07-12 02:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by St鰨anie Lalatiana A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how recently they split up. if its an old ex then just explain that you became close recently and have started a relationship but it should in no way affect yours. if its recent then i know sometimes you cant help the way you feel but having a bit of common courtesy towards your friend would have been better than starting a relationship with some one she may still feel very deeply for.
2006-07-05 23:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by mrst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being honest. It also depends how much of an 'ex' the boyfriend is and whether there are still feelings involved. I would guess that 'tact' and 'sensitivity' are high on the agenda when it comes to sitting down with your friend and telling her, if you value your friendship.
It also depends what the motive is for dating this guy...............
Good luck
2006-06-28 05:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by Happyface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her because she would want to know. The same thing happened to me .It hurt because she was not a true friend cause she did not tell me her self. She was into him from the start. Since he was my ex she should have Told ME.
So bottom line lady just tell her.PLS!
2006-07-12 04:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by foxxy_CR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her but if u want to just come clean and tell her that hey I'm seeing ya ex boyfriend.
2006-07-02 12:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by Rebekah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth. But personally, I think it's a bad idea to get involved with men that have been involved with your friends.
2006-07-11 14:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by julielove327 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a message so if she don't accept u have to stop seeing him ok .Remember that ur friendship is much more important than a bf right .
2006-07-09 05:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very Carefully. Don't be surprised if it turns out that you're seeing your ex-friend's ex-boyfriend.
2006-07-11 05:56:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋