I am a 18 years old girl and currently studying in college. 2 months ago, i got to know a new friend in the college and its a girl and we become friend. She like to play with me and one day, i realise that i got some strange feeling with her. Maybe is when the time she hug me and she like look into my eyes. This make me have that kind of uneasy feeling. She wasnt the first girl i had that kind of feeling. Last time, the feeling wasnt that strong. I realy need some advice on that situation.
2006-06-28 05:18:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I dont know how to say the feeling i had with her.. Its very very strong in the first place. When we meet each other, she will do something to me and make me think about it. I try to run away from this problem but i cant.. i tried to forget, but i cant.
2006-06-28 05:37:30 · update #1
I've seen several questions like this one lately...They completely blow the theory many gays spout out that homosexuality is not a choice! According to most gays, you're either born gay or not...no in between.
2006-06-28 05:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to run faraway from it? Any connection that we make with yet another man or woman is effective. It boggles my ideas that some human beings are so ignorant. Homosexuals are area of each and absolutely everyone's commonly used interactions. i'm a instructor and a lesbian, my female friend directs a nursery college. a number of my acquaintances own their own agencies, artwork in eating places etc.. to assert that we are all drug purchasers and promiscuous is somewhat ridiculous! i imagine if this lady is attracted to you then you definately could communicate about, stumble on it, ascertain out the superb courting that works for both of you. merely seek for hapiness. I merely examine No Boys allowed answer... lesbians are outstanding, and picture that... we've a mind!
2016-10-13 22:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should maybe talk to the girl that you think you have feelings for. First of all Lesbians usually know if another girl is a lesbian, and we usually send signals to tell you that we like you. I think you should just approach her and tell her how you feel inside, I'm sure by what you are saying, that she likes you. You know how us women are, we always like to judge our feelings by a kiss, so maybe you should try that after you talk to her though, that way there's offense on anyone. Just tell her how you feel you have nothing to lose in the end, this may help you come to closure with the fact that you are a lesbian, and sweetie if you are......Embrace it, it's a beautiful thing being a lesbian. Good luck sweetie
2006-06-28 05:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by graciefaith1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...grl i am a lesbian i think u might be.. i had feeling like that.. since i was young.. but i didnt have sex wit grl until i was 19yrs old and in college i just couldnt handle the feelings anymore so i think u should maybe see if that grl have feeling for ya as well and if not.. then i think u might need to go to the lesbian clubs, get on line and etc and try to date a female and take your time.. and go from there.. and take it slow.. u just more learn more about yourself then meets the eye u know.. by the way.. that is how i found out i been dating women for about 10yrs now.. but i feel u need to follow your heart and explore these feeling wit her if she is into it and it not.. wit someone else.. but.. u do need to found out what is going on u might be lesbian or might be bi and there is nothing wrong wit that..
2006-07-02 01:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't necessarily mean you are a lesbian. I believe you may be falling in love with her. I think we can fall in love with any person, male or female, and it doesn't require a label. If you are only interesting in sexual contact with other women and have no physical attraction to any men, then, maybe you are. You really should be able to look back into your past and realize who your attractions were for. I think you may just be experimenting and, from the sound of you question, may be very unexperienced with relationships. So, just go with it for now if it is what makes you happy and comfortable.
2006-06-28 05:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Candi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know quite alot of girls experience these feelings for other girls,some experiment and go further even if it is just a kiss,some go full on and have a relationship it might be a one off affair or you may become bisexual or even lesbian,if you are having these feelings dont supress them,let them come out and you may enjoy the experience.
2006-06-28 07:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have all kinds of "strange" feelings for people which can't be easily classified. Having intense emotional feelings for someone does not mean you want to have sex with them. It's often impossible to say whether they are sexual or not.
Just enjoy your friendship with this girl and try not to feel analyse your feelings for her too much, or try to fit yourself into a category.
I think the way people talk about sexual orientations misleads people into thinking that they have a definite fixed sexual orientation which they need to discover. In fact, sexuality is very fluid and ambiguous and can't be easily seaparated from other aspects of our emotional life.
2006-06-28 05:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by Aldan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I would advice you to talk with her clear any doubt you have between you too. Maybe she likes you too (as a girlfriend).Maybe she just thinks that you are a really nice girl to hang around with.
If you too love each other so be it. Have a nice. Don't need to worry about the word "gay" or "lesbian". To have a relationship it doesn't need to be with the other sex. Just love each other.
Good luck.
2006-06-28 05:34:07 · answer #8 · answered by Neshadi W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what it feels, like but i would talk to your friend and tell her how you feel, she might feel the same. If you don't want to do that then go to another close friend and them for advice. But make sure it is someone you can trust. Good luck.
2006-06-28 05:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by sweety_chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, and explore your sexuallity. Maybe try a date. You can always change your mind later. If it really, really bothers you, contact the GL organization on campus so you can talk to some people about what you are feeling.
2006-06-28 05:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by ksjazzguitar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be a lesbian. And you must know there is nothing wrong with that. You also may be bi-sexual. If you find that you have strong feelings for her, just talk to her about it. And if you still have feelings for boys, you might be bi.
2006-06-28 05:21:33 · answer #11 · answered by Poppi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋