ok ........ they are our parents but cant we take our decisions by own! why they have to cross for everything we do?
2006-06-28 05:15:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Because they don't have their own life! The parents should have made sure that they put each other first because when the kids leave they are still with each other. They lost track of their own lives to each other and did everything for the kids, now they just exist and still feel they should be in the kids life like they did when they were young. Reintroduce your parents and set up a date night for them, maybe with any hope, they'll back out of your life a little more.
2006-06-28 05:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Karen H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are responsible for you and your actions until your 18. Plus they also love and care about you and want to do what they feel is best for you and to protect you. Sure, they sometimes mess up but at least they are there for you and care. Be thankful for having parents that care enough to interfere in your life, there are a lot of kids out there that aren't nearly so lucky.
2006-06-28 05:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that is their job is to raise their children. the time parents has in many ways is not long enough. they are not there to form your future they are there to prepare you for your future. Children these days think they have to rush through their childhood and be somebody and although i think everyone should, the time when you should be doing this is when your parents job is finished. most children buck up against their parents around the age 16 and think their parents are too controlling but this is not the case in 2 short years they become adults and then they can decide what is best for them but what is the rush to do it before 18.
2006-06-28 05:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they love you and want what is best for you. We don't always make the wisest choices as kids, so as a parent they are just trying to guide you and help you from becoming hurt or involved in something that could be harmful to you. Remember parents were kids at one time, too,
2006-06-28 06:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are trying to give advice based upon their experiences. But, kids do often need to learn things, good or bad, on their own.
2006-06-28 05:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by racingcowboy58 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lot's of good answers. take thier advice for sure. listen to your parents. but if you think this goes away when you're 18 your kidding yourself. but it's a lot easier to handle if you don't have to live with them.
i'm 39 and my mother still gripes about things i've done, or things i will do soon. that's ok though she can say what she wants and i can do what i want. i still love her.
but it's always good to listen to them. they prolly know what they are talking about because they have tried it or know someone who has. things will seem different for you too when you get older.
2006-06-28 05:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by ratso_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they worry. That's that. Most parents who are that concerned just want you to have a good life and make good choices. They worry about their kids, wouldn't you?
2006-06-28 05:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they love us and want the best for us. It is difficult for them to stand back an watch you make foolish decisions when they can prevent it.
2006-06-28 05:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by trovanhawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure! im 20, residing with my boyfriend and characteristic 2 youthful ones, and nonetheless my mom tells me no longer to drink or smoke and phones me maximum days to ascertain if I truly have fed the youngsters or hoovered or finished the dishes, she used to have a spare key to my homestead for emergences, yet i have been given sooo ill of her strolling in even as she felt like it,, as if i became nonetheless at homestead and he or she became strolling into my bedroom to ascertain if i had tidied up! when I lived at homestead i'd could open any submit in the front of her so she might want to ascertain what it became and when I requested her to get my digital camera movie greater, she regarded at each and every of the photos earlier giving them to me! makes my blood boil.
2016-10-13 22:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because 1 day not long ago 4 them U were a tiny defenceless baby & 2 them U R still that tiny baby that they want 2 protect.
They usually mean well.
Take it in your stride, B polite & remind them that it's your life.
Do it gently, please.
2006-06-28 05:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋