i need help plz help?

Question

i get picked on all the time at school i get called fat and nasty and ugly and albino the teachers dont do anything they just tell me to ignore it then when i get home i get yelled at by my mom all the time and she doesnt let me go out of the house and hang out with my friends like yesturday there was something wrong with the computer and she started yelling at me saying it was my fault i had not been on the computer for 3 days

my parents are divorced i dont talk to my dad i have gone to the princpal he told me to ignore it

i have tired to loose weight

Answer 1

i go to school wid marcy and im pretty much her only friend and she really does get treated like **** by people and noone does anything the principals teachers they do nothing!

Answer 2

I don't know you, but if I could offer some words of encouragement.

First - regardless of what a person looks like on the OUTSIDE, real beauty comes from within.
It starts with you loving and respecting YOU.

Second, in regards to the teachers at school - take it up a notch.
If the teachers are NOT doing anything, go to the principal.
If he (or she) doesn't do anything, go to the school board.
In each case, DOCUMENT who you talked to, what you asked for and what they said.
Submit a copy of those documents to each higher-up person you talk to.
If you have legitimate complaints and nothing is being done, you'll soon get some attention.
Further, this could be an excellent opportunity to submit an editorial to your local newspaper.
Think of the angle: a student tries to get some respect and instead of bringing a gun to school and killing people, you are using your brain to resolve matters in an adult manner.

As for your mom - I don't know what to tell you.
That is a whole other issue and as long as there have been parents and children, this will go on.
Try to keep a level head, talk without shouting and use logic to make your point.
If anything, let your mom lose her cool - you'll end up looking like the adult and she'll look foolish.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Just remember that no matter what you look like on the outside, as long as you are a nice kind person you're beautiful. Because the inside is what counts. Not in our stupid little high school world but in the real world. If the adults don't listen to you, you could contact the higher up authorities. The superintendent's office could help. And if all hope is lost, just transfer schools. But don't forget, you do have at least one friend, the one that you mentioned. Who cares what other ppl think?
But that doesn't mean you shouldn't take care of yourself. If you are overweight you really do need to lose the weight. it's unhealthy and dangerous. It's especially bad that you're overweight when you are so young. Just start exercising regularly and eating healthfully. No crash or fad diets, just a healthy lifestyle is what you need.
About your mother, sometimes parents are like that. My mother went crazy because my sister and father weren't eating dinner with her. My father hasn't eaten with us since we were little. She apologized to everyone the next day. But your situation sounds bigger than that. So sit down with your mother and tell her how what she does makes you feel. I know it sounds corny, but she's your mother and she's going to be in your life for a long time so it's best to make things right with her.

Answer 4

I can help you with this when I was at school I got picked on as well. Sometimes I get yelled at as well in the house. I just usually go into my room and play music, watch t.v or play the video game. The teachers are wrong by not doing anything, Go the the principal, or V.P and tell them what's wrong they will be sure to help. And about your mom yelling at you, tell her that you didn't do anything.

Answer 5

talk to your school counselor. you sound stressed. when your mother calms down calmly tell her that it wasn't your fault because you hadn't used the computer and let it rest at that. As for school you can go to the principal and tell him/her what is going on and how the teachers won't do anything but i don't know how much it will help. sometimes kids are buttheads and you just can't do anything about it.

if you are overweight then start exercising and eating better and you'll loose weight. take care of your appearance and be happy with yourself and then nothing they can say to you will matter.

Answer 6

Gurl don't worry about it those people have no life if they keep bothering you all the time. There's something that you do have to worry about and that is to keep your head up and always know that you are and will always be better than those people. Don't worry about your mom always yelling at you, she's probably just going through things and you just have to comfort her just a little bit.

Answer 7

Well there's not much i can tell u hun.Dont let the bad stuff bother u,focus on the awesome stuff in your life.Kinda like the silver lining.The crappy stufff wont seem as bad, and u will enjoy yourself more.Besides those ppl who make fun of u are just plain stupid,i mean hello! who does that nemore! thats just lame.As 4 tha stuff with ur mom,we all hav those problems and we r all hoping they get better with time!

Answer 8

I think you need to call your local Juvenile Court system. They help troubled children as well as children in trouble. They have many services that can help and can also suggest or even force your mother to get some help. If there are problems in your school that are not being addressed they can force them to handle the situations.

Answer 9

i feel sorry for my when i was like in the 3 grade people called me fat and ugly and whaen i got home i would cry for hours i got so bad i was going to kill myself don't do that!!!!!!o.k try to think i am a great preson i don't need them i'm pretty becaues i'm gods child o.k u can e-mail me and i will tell u more [e-mail] sorry people are being mean to u

Answer 10

learn to focus on different things.u can learn to adopt new interesting hobbies or something else.btw y is ur mom keep on yelling at u?u can try and talk to her how u feel.