2006-06-28 05:13:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you're happily married ... why are you so worried thinking about your ex will change anything.
It's ok to think about past lovers or BF or whatever you want to call them .. they were part of your life at one time or another and it's ok to think about the times you spent with them ..
It's bad when you start wondering if you want them back or not ... if you would leave your husband for an Ex .. there's a reason you broke up with them and I would leave it at that ..
2006-06-28 05:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming since you say that you are 'happily' married then you must be satisfied and in love with your husband. I think it is quite normal to think about our exes from time to time. It's just a curiosity thing or trying to preserve memories, they will always be there. The important thing you need to remember is how happy and good your life is now and the past is the past. Make the best of your future and really relish in the good thing you have now and be appreciative that you have such a good relationship with your husband. If things were meant to work out with your ex they would have but they didn't which should tell you something. It's ok to have passing thoughts from time to time, just don't dwell on them or try to look for a deeper meaning in them. Just let them come and go as easy and when they come always think how well off you are now and look ahead not behind.
2006-06-28 05:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if ur happily married then u shouldn't be thinkin bout him that much....if u still thinkin bout him then u probly have to tie up sum loose ends and when ur done wit that then u could truly live happily ever after...
2006-06-28 05:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you are happily married. I think you are just comfortable. You had better put it all out on the table with your present husband because it will bite you on the butt later.
2006-06-28 05:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you thankfully married? if you're questioning about your ex each of the time, there's a reason as to why it really is occurring. ask your self once you're questioning about him. what's it you're questioning about once you imagine about him? bodily? Emotionally? Is there something that your husband isn't supplying you with (mentally, bodily and emotionally)? you want to appreciate that it did not workout consultation including your ex and carry onto those motives once you imagine about him. imagine about each of the excuses you married your husband, why you're nevertheless with him and how he makes you experience. imagine about each little thing that you locate pleasing about your husband. desirable desires and take care.
2016-11-29 21:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some sort of closure for that relationship. Whenever I end a relationship I rid myself of everything from them or that reminds me of them. Cutting up pictures is very freeing as well as burning clothes. You must do this as a symbol to yourself that you are letting go and then when you think of him again you wont think of him you'll think of the things you did to remove him from your life. Best wishes
2006-06-28 05:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say its somewhat normal, you use to have the mind set that he would be the one experiencing the life you now share with an other. So naturally he is on your mind from time to time..My ex says she can't forget me because our children are so much like me....their such good kids!
2006-06-28 05:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to figure out how to get over him, maybe you need to see him in person and talk to him....i was like that with my ex, even 5 years later and i was married, we got together recently and it helped clear the air for me..just be careful you don't get yourself into trouble
2006-06-28 05:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by jada_24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over your ex. You're married now. I'm sure we all probably think about our exes from time to time. We had different experiences with each, they all had different personalities and habits, we have different memories with each. I think it's normal.
If you're OBSESSING over him, you need to get out of that mindset. OBSESS over your husband. You're an adult, you're not helpless.
2006-06-28 05:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmine Lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's what they call "walk down memory lane", it's not wrong to do that ,i think what your should be concern about is how to be happy with your hubby. do you think your ex feels the same?never take home an ant infested wood. best of luck
2006-06-28 05:45:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋