i have two best friends, and they seem to be closer to each other than me. i dont really know what to do about it.
2006-06-28 05:08:19 · 12 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know how upsetting this is, I've experienced this many times over the years. I don't think there is much that can be done about it...sorry. I mean sure, you can try to please them by being more "fun" to be around, a better listener, more cool...etc. But you shouldn't have to work really hard at being friends, it takes an effort for sure, but you shouldn't have to go to extremes. I would concentrate on you and do things that make you happy. At the end of the day, you are your own best friend. Everything else will fall into place.
2006-06-28 05:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by acouchy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. Friends are the best thing that you can have. No matter whom is closer to whom. You've always got each other's back and are there for each other. That's what is important!
2006-06-28 05:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by dakota_baby_469 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are true friends they do matter because they will be there for you no matter what occurs in your life of theirs. If it seems that they are closer maybe it's because they are able to spend more time with each other than you
2006-06-28 05:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by scherita j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also have similar problem. It seems as if when I'm around they are the nicest people; when I'm out, they always say all what i considered it's a secret to each other. I am now afraid of these friends. After reasoning how delicate it was, i decided to keep my secret by myself and be nice to them as a friend.
2006-06-28 05:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by baboh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say two's company, three's a crowd. Sometimes it can work, sometimes it can't, it depends on the personalities involved. I had two best friends when I was young but one of the girls, let's call her 'A', could come to my house alone and go to the other girls, lets call her 'B', alone but if 'B' came to me alone....'A' would go ballistic about being 'left out'. Me and B became best friends and dropped 'A' as she ended up being a nightmare.
2006-06-28 06:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it. best friends is a thing we all should grow out of anyway when we find a partner but being a friend to yourself is more important and having lots of friends is better than only two! Don't depend on freindship to get you through life. you need to be your own best friend to do that. my family are more important to me than my friends.
2006-06-28 05:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more you worry about it the more of an issue this will become. Don't worry about it enjoy life. How do you know they are close to each other?.....
2006-07-05 02:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by flymetothemoon279 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends do matter and may be u r not spending much time with them.bet they love you
2006-06-28 05:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♣BABY GIRL♥♥♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them, tell them u guys are supposed to be friends but not to crowd u out.
2006-06-28 05:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry bout it me and my friends are liek this too! but ull find they will start to more open with you soon
2006-06-28 05:13:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋