He didnt tell me that he had a gf,so he asked me out,he was sweet but @ the end he was a jerk at the same time.
2006-06-28 05:06:53 · 31 answers · asked by The Alma 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
Yes it is wrong. If you are the other woman and do not know it, then it isn't your fault. If you knowingly are the other woman, you are as bad as he is.
2006-06-28 05:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not the other woman unless he is supposedly in a committed relationship with someone else. I just got out of a relationship where the guy acted like he was cheating all the time and then we always had something to argue about when he was "accused" the bad part was he dumped me to cheat BUT IT WASN"T A GIRL!!!! Don't be the other woman unless you don't think much of yourself and we girls should respect each other more. If he would have been straight with me (no pun intended)
I could have gotten over the split better, and if it would have been another girl invading territory I think I could have talked her out of wanting to give him a try. Now, he is alone and I am devastated and all I needed was a level playing field. Think about that before you ruin someone's world. Peace!!!
2006-06-28 12:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong to be "the other woman" if you know there's a wife or girlfriend... but no one can blame you if you didn't know. Once you find OUT there's a girlfriend or wife, if you don't dump him immediately... oh, yeah... THEN you're totally wrong, no matter what his sorry excuse is for having two women at the same time. "Well, I was going to break up with her" is not an excuse.
2006-06-28 12:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by thegirlwholovedbrains 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, why would you take someone's man? I know you didn't know, but you got to check out into it. For all you know maybe the girl could be a psycho and you'd be in deep ****. Plus, whenever you're the other women, what makes you think he doesn't have more while he's with you? Think about that.
2006-06-28 12:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by yourhairsohot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered it yourself, guys I k now who have multiple girls want them for one thing only, they usually tend to keep the ones with low self esteem. If that is you then you are made for each other, the user and the used. Be strong no one deserves to be the other man/woman. Get rid of the looser and get your own man, his deceptions will continue since he knows that he may get away with it again and again. why give him the pleasure? dont become his door mat , if you are feeling guilty, letting his wife know the facts may help ease that and help her at the same time.
2006-06-28 12:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by cbb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't know he was seeing someone else you couldn't help being the other woman for a while.Once you knew you were , and you said he was a jerk anyway, dump him fast!!How would you feel if you were in her shoes?Do you want someone else messing your boyfriend?How would that make YOU feel?So YES its wrong.
2006-06-28 12:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by Heather D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but it doesnt mean its your fault.You didnt know in the first place. But now that you know that he had a gf ,get rid of him.Nothing good will come out of it if you continue seeing him.
2006-06-28 12:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by msdent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wise woman once said," if I can't be number 1, I will not be number 2".
It is called the "other" woman.
Just think about how you would feel, if you found out your man had "another" woman...
2006-06-28 12:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by momma265 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not when you didn't know you were "the other woman". He's the jerk for lying to you and lying to his wife. Not only that he played on your emotions.
2006-06-28 12:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by highroller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you date him for any time you will soon discover that he will cheat on you too. any relationship that was gotten by cheating will end with cheating. dump him he is no good, I am married and have been for a little more than 20 years and I have never cheated on my wife
2006-06-28 12:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by native 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if you know about it going in to the relationship
yes if you find out and don't have the self-respect to leave him
by the way, if you became "the woman" then there would always be "another woman" .... look at his behaviour....actions speak louder than words
2006-06-28 12:11:44 · answer #11 · answered by Alauria B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋