A guy named "Nick" bellow says it best. You ARE under your parents household, therefore it is important that you respect they're rules and wishes. I understand that you like this guy a lot to however. With parents, if you go screaming kicking and hollering about your way, they wount listen and it will get u in deep ****. Talk to them, calmly. Tell them the truth. Tell them you know that it was wrong, and you are sorry and you deserve to be grounded (give in a little!!!) and it wont happen again. But at the same time do a little begging and say "But i REALLY REALY like this guy (might want to add why...)" Macke sure to let them talk as well...they have every right to be mad. Also talk to the guy. it would deffinitly be great if he apologized as well. The more maturly you handle it, the better the liklyhood of a better turn out.
*good luck!!*
ps: make sure the guy is worth all this trouble...
2006-06-28 08:15:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Your parents are looking out for your best interests, and you need to listen to them. Think about the reality for a minute, and you will understand that they have been there themselves. Your father is well aware of what the boy wants, and love has nothing to do with it. Your mother is well aware of what you want, and respect is not found in the backseat of a car or under the bleachers at school. I think you will understand what I am saying, and please listen to your parents. They really only want what is best for you.
2006-06-28 11:57:07
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answered by Anonymous
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maybe u can try talking to ur parents. i don't know how old u r so i don't know if it's gonna work. but u can see what they r uncomfortable with, and maybe reach some king of an agreement. like u can see him, but only when u r with some of ur friends and stuff like that.
don't yell and cry and stuff, be mature about it, show him that u can be responsible and that u r willing to work towards a situation that's fine with u and ur parents.
and remember, they just don't wanna see u hurt. no matter how old u r, u r still their little girl
good luck
2006-06-28 11:58:54
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answered by Unicorn 3
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It all depends on your age. If you are still young (14-15ish), your family is just trying to protect you. If you are older (16 and up), if the two of you are serious, you have to show your parents how responsible you are. You have to show them that you respect their wishes, but in also let them know how you feel.
Just remember to be honest with everyone involved.
2006-06-28 11:56:41
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answered by Lola C 2
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Why don't you try talking with your parent's about the situation? Let them know you understand why they are upset but that your relationship with this guy means something to you and is important. Ask if you can compromise on the situation.
2006-06-28 11:57:14
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answered by soconfused!! 1
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I was in a similar situation, but it was switched. His parents didnt approve of me. He told me that we would still be together, but in the end broke it off because his parents kept finding out. You relationship with your parents is very important, talk to them about it. If they still insist you dont see him, its your call. Only you can decide which is more important to you.
2006-06-28 12:03:51
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answered by amymarie 1
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Your parents are trying to protect you from getting pregant, and from disease which can ruin your life. Is your boyfriend the type of guy who is concerned about you too, or is he just looking at you for what you can do for him? He needs to think about your life also.
2006-06-28 11:56:22
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answered by Justsyd 7
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Okay!
Serious problem,here.
You need to talk to your parents about it.
I know how teens are, I AM ONE.
But,talk calmly.Tell them why you two did it.
Explain that you really like this guy,but you don't want to go against them.
Tell them it kind of hurts you to have to talk about it,when they should be trusting you.
-Nick
2006-06-28 11:55:40
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answered by inurface012391 2
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If your living with your parents, you should respect their wish's. But I understand wanting to see someone, its a decision only you can make.
2006-06-28 11:54:59
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answered by City slicker 5
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Hon, Listen to your parents. It will be better for you in the long run if you don't go against their wishes.
2006-06-28 11:55:55
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answered by W . 1
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