My boyfriend wants to come see me, he lives far away and I would have to pay for him to come. (he doesnt have a job right now!) But I would Rather pay for an outfit that I am getting tailored. am I being selfish, I mean it is "my" money? I feel guilty because he wants to see me, but i want my outfit.
2006-06-28 04:45:24 · 30 answers · asked by bloomingflower 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he wants to see you badly enough, then he will save up some money to see you. Get your outfit tailored and go have a good time with your money. Let Mr. Boyfriend get a freaking job and then he can see you!! Don't feel guilty.
2006-06-28 04:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you want a new outfit more than you want to see your boyfriend, then he needs a new girlfriend! At the same time, it is your money, and your life, so I see no point in beating up yourself for setting your own priorities!
2006-06-28 11:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can your boyfriend want to come and see you when he's a got no money livin off his girl no job loser? He expects you to pay for him to come out and boink you? Girl, you need a man with a job, a car and a life. Buy yourself that dress and dump the clown......unless you want to be mooched off of all the time....for the rest of time.
2006-06-28 11:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend deserves better. he is trying to make an effort to come see you and all you care about is a dumb outfit that will go out of style in a couple months.
break up with him so he can go out with a girl that will appreciate him.
2006-06-28 11:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by lledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to see you that much he would get the money from somewhere to come. It is absolutely wrong of him to expect you to pay for him to visit you.
My advice is get the new suit and a new boyfriend.
2006-06-28 11:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by smoggii_bru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that ur bein selfish i think he needs to find his own way to get to see u if he really wanted to see u so bad he would make a way for him to pay for it go ahead and get u that outfit girl.
2006-06-28 11:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds selfish to me. I mean you're choosing clothes over your seeing your boyfriend. Looks to me like you have your priorities mixed up.
2006-06-28 11:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all. u shud immediately dump this fellow who doesnt have enough to take care of himself. go out and look for a guy who is filthy reach....may not be young but can give u all earthly pleasures
2006-06-28 11:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by midas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your selfish and you should learn the proper use of large and small case when typing.
2006-06-28 11:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by BILLOH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs a job before he gets a woman. Tell him that.
2006-06-28 11:47:46 · answer #10 · answered by gump138 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋