Well, this is a sort of long story. My boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 years, we are 18 and 20. We meet through my older sister and her boyfriend, who are both 21. They started dating at the end of their grade 9 year and dated for 6 year. Just under a week of 6 years, my sister dumped her boyfriend. Now i feel like im in a awkward situation. My boyfriend and i aren't letting this affect us, its hard. We are planning to get engaged this summer but now everything is different. I've been sisters with my sister for 18 years and my boyfriend has bee friend with my sister's now ex for 16 years. This break up came to a huge surprise to everyone. All my sister would say that they were fighting a lot, so it seems like she ran from her problems. I don't know what to do, she is my sister and i know how happy she was with him. I believe there is a 3rd party telling her that the fights aren't worth it. But i life you have to deal with problems and not run away.
2006-06-28 04:42:07 · 6 answers · asked by Leslie N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have never seen my sister's ex so depressed and i know he is trying to hide this. While my sister is acting like nothing is wrong.
2006-06-28 04:42:52 · update #1
how can i get to to realize what she did
2006-06-28 04:48:50 · update #2
and what she lost
2006-06-28 04:49:08 · update #3
Your sisters relationship is her relationship. This shouldn't affect you and your boyfriend. But having said that, I can see the position you are in. All I can say is communicate with both parties, don't start lying to accomodate the others feelings, and be true to each other.....
sorry but this is all I have to offer.
2006-06-28 04:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
heavily U might want to make an apology for your Sis And tell HEr that you And Antonie do not have any more something happening.you'll discover MAny Boy acquaintances yet you could by no skill stumble on a Sister.....best of success.would God help you
2016-11-15 09:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by wesch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships have their ups and downs. I say live and let live. If they really love each other and are meant to be together they will find their way back "home". Whatever you say or do won't make a difference at this point.
2006-06-28 04:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by Rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur sister to solve her problems, i think u and ur boyfriend should talk to her boyfriend too so the two of them can solve it and not run away from it.
2006-06-28 05:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, I hate long stories..... I would say "Mind Your Own Business"
2006-06-28 04:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by lovesyourdiamond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someones def telling her something..as her straight up...and keep ur bf out of this u dont want to lose him...but she's be really shady
2006-06-28 04:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋