I am a sex-addict. What can I do to stop it?

Answer 1

dont worry that's not you, exactly. it's a demon named sexazel. he lives inside you. if you wanna get rid of him find a NY hooker named esmeralda. she's not really a hooker but an exorcist. hope this helps

Answer 2

First of all pray for help from God. Next find a 12 step program like a sex anonymous group. If that's not possible, look up what the 12 steps are and start there. If you're addicted to anything else such as drugs, alcohol, or gambling, they also have 12 step programs. Being an addict myself, I'm currently reading a Life Recovery Bible. If you can find one, it's very helpful and is geared toward being able to work the 12 steps. We are all powerless against something, and with the power God will give us, if we turn to Him for help, we can get better.

Answer 3

Admitting your a addict is good. Don't be afraid to tell the people in your life that you truly love. Get some books from the library to help them and yourself understand better and get some help. groups and individual therapy. most city's and states have clinics that are based off income so don't let that be an excuse. and last but not least if your married good luck.

Answer 4

It is not possible to be “addicted” to sex.

People say that it is because they are ignorant and actually believe that, or they are trying to control you through fear – believing that if you are afraid of getting “addicted” to sex you will avoid having sex.

Because that works so well with keeping people from taking drugs.

Answer 5

Any addiction is a habit. Just like a drug addict your body gets accustomed to the neuropeptides released during the sexual act and this is one source of the addiction. Candace Pert (Molecules of Emotion) investigated the effects of neuropeptides released by the hypothalamus and her research can verify what I am saying about the effects of hormones on the body.

Ultimately the source of any addiction is an error regarding where our true bliss lies. An addiction says that our true, unalloyed bliss lies in the realm of things outside of ourselves. We need something external to be a catalyst for our bliss. But, what about the bliss we experience in deep sleep. We wake up refreshed and joyous from true deep sleep saying, "I slept well" or "I knew nothing and it was pleasant". The Upanishads say that we seek external things solely for the internal bliss that it reminds us of. An odd way of looking at things but it seems to be true. In the authentic Tantric texts there is a reference to any act being a source of pointing the way back to our own bliss, not just sex. We can eat a peach or hear music. The real goal is being quiet enough to seek the source of the bliss within and prove to ourselves that no external catalyst is required for our connection to this bliss. Happiness is our true nature - independent of any bodily activity. Although, we may need an intervention like a retreat away from things that tempt us and the practice of meditation (to retrain our wayward reasoning) we can eventually alter our habits. A habit is something that is unconscious. As soon as it is understood and made conscious (choice) it is no longer a habit.

Answer 6

you should try to relax and accept it. If you try to fight it then it will get worse because the human mind is like that anything you try to fight with becomes bigger. But if you relax with it and just accept that nature in you then it will start to not become so strong. If you accept it then you will start to go back to normal and stop feeling so addicted to sex. I think what you are probably looking for is love but since you are not finding love in yourself you try to find it through sex. Start to love yourself and accept yourself as you are. That is the best advice I can give to you.

Answer 7

You can join Sexaholics Anonymous. First, try to see if you have the symptoms... there's a test on that site that will help you self-diagnose and there are also groups which can help you overcome your addiction. Go to www.sa.org or just surf the web for Sexaholics Anonymous.

Answer 8

Start by writing a fare-thee-well note to family and friends. Leave it on the kitchen table. Go to the garage and close the doors and windows. Start the car. Sit and wait for your quiet delivery to concubine heaven, a place where you can interact to your hearts delight with obligations to the other person's needs or desires. Hasta la pasta! Bon Voyage!

Answer 9

There is some meetings like the AA mettings for sex-addicts. Try the yellow book?!?

Answer 10

First of all, if I am not mistaken, you are addicted to pornography as well. This is damaging you. I would suggest getting into a program to rid yourself of pornography addiction. That's where you shoudl start.

Answer 11

Hmmm i dont think theres a way to stop it... maybe try and have more sex so u get too sore?
Or u can always opt to cut it off. ahaha
Or maybe a chastity belt? I'd keep the key for u if u want.
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