This is very important to me.I have been trying to decide on if I should stay with my ex we have been together 3 years, through a lot of things together. He has almostalways been there for me but I find that I get very upset with him easily, annoyed, and I am easy to anger over anything.. which is definatly NOT me. Well I met a guy through some classes I have and he is a total sweetheart, and it is not a false thing either. He makes me laugh and smile CONSTANTLY Like my ex used to but it feels very different than with my ex. I feel like I have known him forever. We hooked up after my ex and I broke it off and I am compleatly honest with both of them that I am having troubles deciding on what is right for me. My new guy loves campin and fishin and everything I love and my ex does too! Help! my ex doesnt leave me alone he sends me flowers and calls all the time and it is complicating things because I do not know what to do. My ex always had "better" things to do and he admits that.
2006-06-28 04:27:18 · 15 answers · asked by Free & Sassy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
THANK YOU I Just want to get other imput
2006-06-28 04:32:48 · update #1
Seems like a simple decision to make. If you find that your relationship with someone causes you to be someone you don't like, such as finding yourself easily angered then that is a bad relationship to be in. You don't want to spend your life being angry, it is much better when you are happy and relaxed and can enjoy life. Focus on the new guy and walk away from your ex. Some times no matter how much you care for someone it is simply the wrong relationship to be in.
2006-06-28 04:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Point of confusion in your question: Is the first guy your ex or not.....cause if you stay with him he's not your ex. Also, it's painfully obvious you are going to have a relationship with guy #2 just by your description. Right now he's giving you the attention you seem to NEED. Will you grow fickle with this guy too once he gets to know you and stops doting on you? You sound like one high maintanence girl. Good luck with that.
2006-06-28 04:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi sassy yr relationship with the ex is 3 years old and now its not easy for both of u to forget eachother and start from the begning, my suggestion is that make some gap between u and yr ex dont meet him or even dont talk to him for some time like a month or more, and he will selfunderstood that how importent and special u r for him so please make some room between both of u. ok bye
2006-06-28 04:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by Aish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that this is a hard decision and it is one you are going to have to make but if you ex has better things to do ... well so do you. There is more to you than him. Just go with your instincts - the first reaction is usually the correct one.
2006-06-28 04:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by Katie Bug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough to feel like you once felt about someone who has taken you for granted...to me it sounds like you have met to guys that are very similar, I have to say your ex had his chance, allow the other guy to prove or dis-prove your always first in his book, from what info you've provided the only difference is one has messed up and the other hasn't been given that chance...I say give him a chance.
2006-06-28 04:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is hard to tell ur feelings yet but i would do what feels right and not hook up with him untill your sure of your feelings toward the both of them. if it helps make a pro and con list....good luck and dont be in a rush stay low and enjoy the single life for awhile.
2006-06-28 04:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by Amz87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first,an ex is an ex for a reason.Yes ther is history w/ u 2 but if you are easily annoyed w/ him and angry alot it isn't worth it to continue a relationship w/ him.Run w/ the new guy and go on w/ your life.Eventually ur ex w/ respect you instead of resent you.
2006-06-28 04:33:53 · answer #7 · answered by roadrunner12928 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think you should follow your heart, go for the one you feel the best with, go for the one you feel like been yourself with... I know is kind of hard, but it is worth the time...
2006-06-28 04:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by my_sweet_love <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your question. Ditch the EX and go for prince charming.
2006-06-28 04:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by NYman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are frustrated with him and don't want to be with him anymore. I think you need to find out why. Stay with the new guy, but resolve things with the old. Otherwise you will repeat your mistakes. After a three-year relationship ends, you should have a little break ideally before you are with someone else, to take stock of what you have learned.
But if you meet someone, you meet someone. I wish you and the new guy the best of luck. Your relationship with your ex sounds unhealthy, at least in its current state. I hope you can have some closure with him.
2006-06-28 04:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by velvet_poi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the present one sounds better. anyways, keep ur ex as a standby.
2006-06-28 04:33:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋