My situation is that I believe that you should always strive to better yourself, but....I think I'm pretty much perfect right now. I mean my skin, hair, body, and clothes are the best. People tell me how perfect I look all the time so I know it's true. (I actually get sick of people fawning all over me. People literally stop, turn and stare where ever I go. Now I know what it's like to be a celebrity! :) Is it possible to get even better or should I just accept that I'm perfect? (If you're ugly, please don't respond...you don't know what I'm talking about)
2006-06-28 04:15:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
You're perfect just the way you are. I too suffer from the same problem. I've had more free drinks given to me by various admirers than I've had hot meals. I'm currently suffering from a hangover but I still look great. It's a hard life.
p.s I think most of you are failing to recognise she's just having a bit of FUN and you're taking it waaaaay too seriously.
2006-06-28 04:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. I think I can relate to a degree. I am by no means an "ugly" person and I take some care in my presentation, but it is for MY benefit, not for others. I have felt "sick" of people constantly complimenting me on my outward features. I would much rather they noticed my incredible organizational skills or fabulously decorated home, or gourmet dinners or something that I've actually had to WORK at to achieve, not my God-given physical attributes. It doesn't sound to me like that's the case with you, though. I'm curious as to why you would post such a question on a forum like this. May I suggest something? Try going to www.tickle.com and take the "7 Deadly Sins" test. It sounds like you may be struggling with pride. How can one define "perfection" anyway? There are women I would define as "perfect" and my husband completely disagrees. There are women he thinks are beautiful that I think are "okay". I think my home is "fabulous" others have described it as "too dark" or "too modern". It is humbling to remember that beauty is still in the eyes of the beholder, but it appears that you behold yourself as "perfect". Be cautious to remember that others may not. If the attention truly bothers you, perhaps you should consider dressing in a way that plays down your "perfect" features rather than accentuates them. I would take a strong guess that you don't actually mind the attention and the compliments, just when they come from "less than perfect" people.
2006-06-28 11:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by lachichippie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is you striving so much to be perfect or get "better"? There much more to a person that just looks, because inner beauty makes you shine even brighter. Also why you need more validation over the internet over this? With the comment you just made about "no uglies" makes you ugly right now.
2006-06-28 11:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by ranay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are self-centered and no body is perfect, you may be good looking, have all the nice things but your insides are ugly.
Anybody who thinks they are perfect have to many insecurities which is why they strive to be perfect all the time. And for your comment on 'no uglies respond' who r u to say if someone is ugly, you may think so but there is someone who thinks they are beautiful. There is more to any one person then looks. EVERYONE can think and act for themselves. Why don't u let them be. as for you, i would do some serious soul searching, you won't be pretty your whole life. your 'perfection' will catch up to you for the worse!
2006-06-28 11:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Dorothy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well from the sound of your question i am guessing you are about 17.....which is an insult to the otehr 17 year olds out there just by the by....
if it bothered you that people looked at you, you wouldnt be bringing up the subject of ahem, how perfect you are yourself...
do you do anything else in life other thank make sure you are looking perfect?
you sound like one of these really high maintenance chicks....I'm a woman too so I know only too well what these sort of chicks are like
i pity their boyfriends...they should run
oops maybe by your standards im ugly....does thath mean i need to delete my reply...
tell you what, put up a picture of yourself, and then I'll put one up of me and people can guess.....
thing is there is more than looks in life and the sooner you get that the better
maybe you can still catch yourself....
before you wake up in fofrty years, alone but perfect
2006-06-28 12:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by Unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder
some people might think YOU are ugly
There is no such thing a perfection
I get looks too Many "attractive" people do
and even the "not attractive" people
the attention is nice but it only gets you so far
and I don't want to end up conceeded like you
If your body is so perfect,
try perfecting your brain and your heart and your soul
2006-06-28 11:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by Babyred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can't be perfect with an attitude like yours. No one but God is perfect and your not God. I think you should get over yourself and strive to be a better person not just better looking. Beauty is also in how you treat people. If you are shallow and think your better than everybody how can you be beautiful?? Conceit is an ugly trait......
2006-06-28 11:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by Kookie M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you are not perfect. second of all, if you were perfect, your avatar would not look like THAT. third of all, you have NO right to say that you are perfect. and fourth of all, your probably saying all of that to get attention and are actually ugly on the outside and the inside. fifth of all, you need to get some information before you say anything about your OWN self. Have you looked in the mirror lately? because I'm sure that if you did, you'd see that avatar looking right back at you.
2006-06-28 12:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by ~Aimee~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your situation is this: u are so living in a DREAM WORLD! If u look anything like ur avatar - Im sure people are staring in Disbelief. I have met so many sincere people here on answers and I don't think u really belong here. Honey with your conceit, you are far from PERFECT!
2006-06-28 11:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. It is great to have such confidence about yourself, but you may want to strive not to be cocky about it. The most beautiful women in the world are modest and don't brag about their beauty. No one is perfect not even Jesus. It is our flaws that make us unique and beautiful in other people's eyes. Try taking a improvisation class and work on your personality since your outside seems to be perfect try working on your inner beauty.
2006-06-28 11:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by grtdne1910 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋