i've been going out with my boyfriend for 10 years, the year before we got married, he cheated on me with this girl. They had a relationship for 6 mos. Then after 6 mos. he dumped her and came back to me. Everything is forgiven and we got married in another 6 mos. after. We are now a year married and the girl that he cheated on me before is trying to make me jealous of her ever since we got married until now. She has this friendster account on the net, and she kept describing there my husband (although she didn't mention his name there but she's implying that its my husband) on how and where she falls in love with this person, how much she wants to meet someone like this guy etc. And now she's posting old group pics of her with my husband and implying there that something happened to them before while they were at that place etc...I know that my husband doesn't talk to her anymore. Why is she making me jealous when i'm the one who my husband marries?
2006-06-28 04:10:08 · 11 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because she's angry that he didn't choose her. She is pathetic.
2006-06-28 04:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god -- wonder if it is the same woman haha. My husband had an affair (for about 7 months - moved out and all) about a year after we got married in 2000 - now 5 years later (since the affair) I still keep tabs on the woman (because I just want to make sure she is really out of the picture) anyway, I found her websites and she has pics of my husband and many many (many many) poems about my husband - only she does mention his name (and he does not have a common name) she describes personal, intimate details about what they did and she writes about me (by name) and says some pretty awful things about me (I never understand, I am the one who didn't do a thing wrong - yet I have to be punished time and time again by memories of it - or seeing what she says about me - like I'm a ***** or a monster).
Anyway, now I think it is funny - because at the end of the day I won - and it is apparently still killing her. So, don't let it get to you - he married YOU not her and it is eating her up that she lost.
2006-06-28 04:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a good question, why is she making you jealous? First thing I would ask myself is why am I stalking this girl? You say that she has a "friendster account" on the net and she is talking about your husband. How did you know she had this account? Why do you continue to go back and read the things she says?
In my opinion if things were going well between you and your husband, you wouldn't be worried about what this girl is doing. Instead of looking for problems, fix the ones you have. Learn to move on, when you took him back that meant you forgave him for what he did. It is wrong on your part to carry on with this, like you said he doesn't even talk to her. If you allow yourself to continue reading the info she leaves you will eventually start believing what you read and "YOU" will be the cause of your divorce, constantly bringing this to your husband asking and accusing him, possible pushing him back to her...So drop this obsession while you still can, before it is too late. Good Luck
2006-06-28 04:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're nuts for taking him back after he cheated on you. In addition why are you looking at her friendster page? Grow up. Either be married and get over it, or get out of the relationship.
2006-06-28 04:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by fark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated once, he'll cheat twice - and he did. You shouldn't have married him in the first place. The first time he cheated was a big warning and a red flag of what was to come. Get the divorce - get out of there. You deserve better!
2006-06-28 04:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your husband isn't talking to her now, I wouldn't worry about it. Don't read what she's writing and don't look at the pictures. Just ignore it and concentrate on your marriage.
2006-06-28 04:15:14 · answer #6 · answered by cynthiajean222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a sign of insecurity. You need to talk with your husband. If you don't feel secure with him, then you need to understand that his cheating means that you can't trust him.
2006-06-28 04:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't go into her web-site then you wouldn't know what she is saying about your husband. I think that you are jealous of her. Don't go to her web-site and it will be all good.
2006-06-28 04:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by queen b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women can be really ruthless. Stop feeding into her wicked mind. Get over it and move on!
2006-06-28 04:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she wants you to divorce him so she can steal all the glory w/e you do keep your husband despite what SOME yahoo Answerers are saying
2006-06-28 04:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋