Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 7 months. It seems as I'm putting the most effort into the relationship. I'm always the one doing all the calling he basically calls about 3 times out of a 2 weeks period. Somtimes I feel as thought he isnt too concerned about me. He stays about 30 mins away from me on the other side of town and i bought him a b-day gift and he still hasnt come by to pick it up. Also I called him about 3 days ago and left a message on his voicemail for him to call me ...and I still havent recieved a phone call back yet!! What should i do? Should I put the brakes to this relationship? Overall he is a nice , respectful person , and very down to earth guy..!
2006-06-28 03:59:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you already know the answer. You really need to let it go and stop holding on to something that isn't there....Its hard, but this is not healthy. You deserve better than that!
2006-06-28 04:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by Texas318-222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't sound to me like he is being very nice OR very respectful to you right now. Just re-read what you wrote... imagine you are someone else reading that and trying to give advice to its author... what would you tell that person? probably the same thing i am going to tell you right now...
YES... yes... yes... you should leave him. i'm sure you're a very great woman with a lot to offer... relationships are about equality... you should be giving equally, sharing equally, loving equally and unconditionally.... if after 7 months, he is still treating you like this, he will NEVER change. You deserve better for yourself- and i think you know that... get rid of this guy and find someone who will treat you like the princess you are!!!!
2006-06-28 11:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes a bit shy and perhaps is facing some problems and doensnt want u 2 be troubled 4 none reasons. give him some time . After all trust and patience is all what matters in the end doent it?.
2006-06-28 11:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by nik i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if he was respectful, he wouldn't be doing this stuff. He probably has someone else, at least that is what it sounds like. I would not waste my time . Why should you sit around and wait for someone who clearly doesn't care about your feelings. Kick him to the curb..
2006-06-28 11:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take the present back to the store and get your money back. This guy just isn't in to you enough. Listen to your feelings. They aren't lying to you.
2006-06-28 11:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find out whether he is really busy in his work or just not interested in u,if he has no genuine reason of not talking to to ,u better move ahead and find some1 else.
2006-06-28 11:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to move on and focus your energy on someone that wants to be with you.
2006-06-28 11:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by cariann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him
2006-06-28 11:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh grl... I am in the EXACT situation.... It sucks.. I hope you get some good replies...
2006-06-28 11:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by alc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it right now. Think before you do.
2006-06-28 11:07:14 · answer #10 · answered by SmartBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋