2006-06-28 03:59:44 · 11 answers · asked by starla 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it wasnt me it was him and no he wouldnt let me sit and read them
2006-06-28 04:33:47 · update #1
Yep.
2006-06-28 04:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Not unless he's taking action on it. And I mean actually meeting her or maybe signing off with, "bye, love you" kind of stuff. Tell him how you feel, but from a guy's perspective, it's not. You accuse at this stage, you're going to alienate him.
I know that I've chatted with ex's. But I would never consider trading what I have for "coulda woulda's."
Tell him how you feel, and work it out. Ask him straight up what he really feels, but not in the heat of an argument.
2006-06-28 11:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by dhaeberle2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is at all. Its just a walk down memory lane. A game of remember when? Nothing more. I have a guy friend that I have known for years (atleast 10) we dated shortly forever ago and we do that sometimes but we know we are both happily married to other people. It doesnt mean anything at all. Kinda like if you ran into an old friend and were like hey remember when this happened___________________? Fill in the blank.
2006-06-28 11:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is considered cheating. You are opening up to someone other than your spouse about personal issues that should be between you and your spouse, not an ex! Especially talking on the internet to an ex is like sneaking behind your spouses back. CHEATING!!!!
2006-06-28 11:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by curious mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Close enough! Would you want your significant other talking like this to his/her ex? If not then it's probably not a good idea for to be doing it either.
2006-06-28 11:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by Steph_G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you give your time and attention to another person instead of your spouse it's cheating.
2006-06-28 11:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh....yeah. not the smartest idea but if you're plan is to lose the person you're with now than by all means, go on with the cheating!
2006-06-28 11:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by i.might.b.crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its cheating.Can you let your husband sit right beside you and read everything you type to each other? My guess is ...not! it is cheating.
2006-06-28 11:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call it cheating if my man was doing it! Sounds like playing with fire too!
2006-06-28 11:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by KLD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so,because if you are doing that then in a way you are wishing that you were together.
2006-06-28 12:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋