I'm 35yrs old and i'm married with one child and we live in a small town (it's so small if you blink you miss it) I've been to every place and I've even tried to go outside of town with no luck. I need some serious help with my bills and the area that I live in isn't open for alot of goverment help. I'm not doing to well psychologiclly 'im not sleeping at night and my marriage is suffering very bad. i've prayed for help and now i'm down to begging for help can somebody please help me. You can e-mail me at danea790@yahoo.com. serious people only please. this is my last hope I'm truely spent I have no more i don't think I can go on if I don't get some help soon SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-28 03:41:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm always willing to help others but it seems like when i need help no-one is there!!
2006-06-28 03:43:39 · update #1
I think you must contact immediately to multiple ways like The Church, The Social Welfare & The Bank For Personal Loan & Try Hard to get a Job..... & when all these are done; wait & Hope....You Will find Something..... Don't loose Hope! It is the only thing that you have to depend on & Try Your Best! I'll pray for you to the God Almighty every day & I Belive something will Be There to get you out of this mischief.......
And all this situation helped you to recognise your known people from whom you did not find help.....
And try hard to GET A JOB.....
2006-06-28 03:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by Monali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are places that will help you with a budget. they're becoming more popular now because of the new bankruptcy laws.
if you can't find a place that does that...do it yourself.
sit down one evening and make a list of all your debts and your monthly obligations. This may be disheartening to look at, but its better than that evil cloud that follows you when you don't dare look at the full extent of your financial crisis.
You can apply for food stamps and that will free up some money.
See what bills you can get rid of....cable TV or long distance on the phone...or if you have a cell phone making the plan smaller....taking a lower level of insurance on the car....not running the air conditioner at night...clip coupons
all of these are little ways to cut corners that do ad up.
remember that the social programs of welfare and foodstamps are there for people in a time of need. they aren't there to live on forever as some do, but there's no shame in taking them for a period of time until you get back on your feet.
If you have a job, its likely that you can get back on your feet with a little planning and by tightening the notches on your belt a bit. But if you're not, or you don't make enough, you can always file for bankruptcy....this gets rid of old debts. You have to save up some money to hire a lawyer to get it done, and it stays with you for 7 years, but it seems to me that this might be the best avenue for you.....do the debt counseling....they'll be able to know all the details and do the math for you...
good luck
2006-06-28 10:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by ladylawyer26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I'm sorry to hear you are going through this. The first thing I would recommend is to see if your county has a mental health facility where you would be able to speak to a counselor. The mental health facility in my county helps people who are low on funds, and helps them come up with solutions for their money problems. They could probably point you in the direction of someone who can discuss public assistance programs with you, such as welfare and food stamps that can help you get back in your feet. They will also be able to help you with your marriage problems, and your physical symptoms (not sleeping).
It can be hard to ask for help when you feel hopeless, and the road to recovery can sometimes feel daunting. But once you take the first step and talk with someone, you will hopefully start feeling better. I hope that things work out for you, good luck.
2006-06-28 10:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the local churches, the biggest one in our town helps people with their electric bills. If there is no assistance then go to the department of human services and ask them who can help. Every state is different. Good Luck Sorry I couldn't be of more help to you.
2006-06-28 10:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We went through this. I don't know you occupation, but my husband joined the union. It pays way more. They have apprenticeships as well. We actually had to leave town. I think that is more and more common
2006-06-28 10:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by faith2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try writing an e-mail or letter to Donald Trump or Bill Gates or somebody rich
2006-06-28 10:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have any family that you can turn to? i'm sure if they knew how bad things were, they would help. otherwise, take on a second job for a while. it'll help with the bills and distract your thoughts.
2006-06-28 10:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by gummi bear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try modestneeds.org. They have helped me in emergency situations and if you read their history Keith Taylor is even more amazing!
2006-06-28 10:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by icddppl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried public welfare I hear they have emergency funds. or maybe the red cross. Good luck buddy it will get better
2006-06-28 10:44:07 · answer #9 · answered by NEOTEH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a local church and ask for help.
2006-06-28 10:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by Sara Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋