2006-06-28 03:41:26 · 22 answers · asked by william m 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
i used to be bisexual
2006-06-28 03:50:29 · update #1
Whoa...You CHOOSE to be gay? hummm, from what I hear it's not a choice, you where born that way. It's a birth defect.
2006-06-28 03:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain this one to me: How the hell can anybody make a "Decision" to be gay. Please, if its really based on a decision your sexual preference, then you are defenitely confused.
What normal man would decide on a rainy day "Oh, I think I am going to be gay from now on!" and give up on something as beautiful as a woman.
Either you are or your not gay...period! Its people like you that are convincing me more and more that homosexuallity is a disease such as alcoholism or diabetes. Many people drink, and are not alcoholics and some people do. My friend is a diabetic, I never did anything different then he has in his life, yet he is and I am not.
So, in esence what your saying is you and I are hetro, and for some unknown reason you became gay and I not.
If homosexuallity is a decision, then why would you decide to be gay, and subject yourself to a life of controversy, abuse and inequality....Please!!!!
2006-06-28 03:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by Donny W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because that was the wrong decision. I guess I'm confused now, because I always thought being gay was a natural tendency, and NOT a conscious decision.
2006-06-28 04:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't make a decision to be gay...you either are or you're are not....there is no decision there. Ignore hte others. They are the confused ones! Just live your life the way you want to....there is nothing wrong in that
2006-06-28 03:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homosexuality really isn't a choice... it is just who you are... do you really feel that you are gay? or are you simply curious?
Either way... the people who say that are probly more of those types that are bigoted and against anything that is not of like mindset to them. They, themselves are the confused ones. Believe it or not, homosexuality is a natural thing, there is nothing wrong with it at all.
Curious? maybe... Confused? Not at all.
2006-06-28 03:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Onyx Dracona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the only gay in the village lolol no sorry that was a joke
if your gay that's kool don't worry people will get used to it
it is more than lightly the shock of you saying you are gay
stay happy
respect
shaz
2006-06-28 03:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by sharon B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are confused. If you don't see the beauty and art in a womans body you are not just confused but insane. Who cares anyway? Its getting old all this crap about gay this and gay that.
2006-06-28 03:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by Fergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought to be gay is not a decision. I never decided to be straight. I thought gay people are born like that, rather than straight people that wake up one morning and decide to be gay.
So I wonder are you just yanking everyone to see what reaction you can get?
2006-06-28 03:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by ilovemyarmyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because even in this day and age, some people find things unacceptable. Homosexuality being one of them. Only YOU know what is right for YOUR life. Let the comments ping off you like the little insignificant darts they are. Be happy.
2006-06-28 03:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by arechigamarks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think a straight person is thinks himself confused coz he is not gay or bi?
Why do you suddenly believe you are confused? Because you cannot be confident if you do anything that wars against your conscience.
2006-06-28 03:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by J_humor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they thought u were stright at some point and seen u with the oppsite sex, that may be way they think u are confused, but in reality they are confused...so don't worry about it
2006-06-28 03:54:23 · answer #11 · answered by janie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋