Think that you have a friend and you are together most of time, but suddenly he/she doesn't want to be with you, What would you do to catch him/her again?
2006-06-28 03:38:18 · 9 answers · asked by ata_shoaie 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
First, I would talk to him/her about what may be going on. Maybe they think you have done something and you may not be aware of it. There is no need to try to "catch" him/her in anything. Just be outspoken and express your concerns about the relationship. I am sure you will both find that, what ever it may be, if the friendship is long and strong you can overcome whatever may be in the way.
2006-06-28 03:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Angelia O 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
O if you feel your friend is disloyal, and is not being a best friend, you need to get out of that relation ship. But lets take steps first 1st we need to talk to the friend see whats going on in their lives, which could possibly e the reason for all of this second don't try to catch them in the act because that's not what a friend is all about. 3rd tell your friend they way you been feeling" I've been feel rather distant from you and here's the reason why"
Remember friends 1st
2006-06-28 03:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By disloyal you mean they don't hang with you all the time. Well, I hate to say this but our definitions of BEST FRIEND are two different things. By best friend means this is a person who you can talk about anything to him/her. It is someone who yes you hang with BUT you don't have to be with each other 24/7 By disloyal you mean you told them something and they went and told another person, then yes they are disloyal and need to be dumped.
2006-06-28 03:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him/her directly in a polite manner.ask him/herwhat is the reason for avoiding u.if he /she tells the reason then try to think about that.if any mistake is with u then try to change it.the best way to keep a relationship is to speak out directly without any ECHO,but in a polite manner.u should not be too loud and also choose a right situation.dont hide ur doubts or anger with yourself
2006-06-28 03:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have a good talk with her. Yo should tell her that you have to be honest if you are my friend. And she is not being a good friend if she is didhonest with you. You have to set things straight. She might have a cricise on her hands. There might be a problem with her family, and she thinks that she has to lie to you inorder for you to like her. You have to be a ood friend to and help her if she needs it.
2006-06-28 04:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by Sami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get the facts straightened out by talking to him/her directly and then depending on the responses and your understanding decide whether you want to continue or discontinue the friendship.
2006-06-28 03:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sh00nya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to "catch" him/her is to let them go--and then come back if they want to. My question to you; why is your question in this category???
2006-06-28 03:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by razzleberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a friend or a lover? I can't tell the difference ... you should stop being so petty.
2006-06-28 03:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by hullo? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would kick her *** because i dont play that **** wit my friends if they my friends they my friends they goin 2 b down 4 wat eva!!!!
2006-06-28 03:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by lil_lizzy74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋