im 14, and all my guy friends say that im a prude. i hate this. i dont no whut to do to just get rid of this title. iv never had a boyfriend or anything like that. but i neeeed helplppp.
2006-06-28 03:06:47 · 12 answers · asked by NICOLEON 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well.. i dont really mean sex. i mean, i love hanging out with my friends who are boys, they accept me for who i am . but then they tell me stories about girls they know who are giving blowjobs to guys..at 14, and they say im prude. i just think its strange. they dont want sex though, im sure of that lol. theyre like my bestfriends
2006-06-28 06:42:17 · update #1
dont sound like a prude to me , you just sound alot smarter than most girls or women .
guys are alot of pain and work . you are only 14 why tie yourself down to a guy ? focus on your education so you can support yourself when you get older by going to college and getting a great job.
and never settle for less than the best !
2006-06-28 03:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by mick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you might need some new guy friends. A true friend would not pressure you into anything, weather it be sex, or drugs, breaking curfew, or showing a little skin. I am not sure what it is that is considered being a prude, but you have obviously set some boundries, that your guy friends are not respecting. You don’t need to worry about being a prude either, a prude is someone who is concerned about what is appropriate. If you weren't a PRUDE you would never even enter into this kind of thoughtful, honest investigation of your feelings. Live your values proudly! Stay true to yourself!
2006-06-28 10:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by SpeakingTruthinLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you do not do what the general consensus does..does not mean you are a prude. Some men have an entire misconception of what a woman "should" be like due to adult videos, magazines,internet...etc. If you are not into these things (or whatever it may be), be proud of who you are and your values. No guy and his rude comments is worth the only thing that is true to you. Wouldn't you rather be known as "prude" then as "easy..etc" I would any day.
2006-06-28 10:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by BlackWidow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better to be called a prude than a slut. Boys will say ANYTHING to get you to have sex with them. Ask yourself this question - If I have sex now and get pregnant how will I ever be able to handle it??
Save yourself for the right time and the right man-you are still very young don't sweat it.
2006-06-28 11:08:44 · answer #4 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're idiots, and they're only carrying on because they can see it's riling you. Don't worry about having a boyfriend, they come in time. If I was you I'd want to have a real knockout putdown on standyby for next time one of them called me a prude. The best I can suggest (if you're up for it) is "Why don't you suck my DÃCK, beyatch!" - make sure it's as sharp and aggressive as you can sound convincingly, and keep eye contact with whoever you're saying it to. I don't think they'll bother you with that again.
(Yeah, I know you're a girl, that's the point.)
2006-06-28 10:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Bad Liberal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what you are saying is that "your still a virgin". Like i have told many young girls, boys will say anything to get you to have sex with them. That is what they are trying to do, make you feel like something is wrong with you so you will have sex with them. Boys will use any tactic to get you in bed, "don't you love me", "i want to break up if you don't", blah blah. You have plenty of time for boyfriends, you are only 14 yrs old. Enjoy your life as a young girl without all this sex crap.
2006-06-28 10:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by little fairy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your "guy friends". There is nothing wrong with being a lady. They just want a physical relationship with you. Move up a bit higher in your standards with men.
2006-06-28 10:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by Latoya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HONEY..... i wouldn't worry about it anyways...... tell them to kiss your ***........ trust me you don't want to have sex with a 15 year old anyways, they don't know what there doin ... you won't enjoy it plus it'll more than likely hurt and afterwards they won't call you a prude anymore they'll call you a slut so sweety whatever you do WAIT.... it's so not worth it..... TRUST ME......
2006-06-28 10:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by jennie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them your not a prude your just smarter than other girls besides that it takes one to know one
2006-06-28 10:10:57 · answer #9 · answered by transplanted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, because later in life, guys will like you because you saved yourself for them. Your husband will be glad that you never slept around and that he is your first and only love. Hope this helps!
2006-06-28 10:19:10 · answer #10 · answered by E.B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋