With her for 6 years and i am really willing to cancel going to Cali, U.S to my dads side.I even got resident card for the U.S. But prefer it here with my girl.MONEY and LOVE isnt about that???. OR Should I reunite with her later.HELP!!!!!!!!
2006-06-28 02:54:57 · 21 answers · asked by loverboy 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
If you're 22 you're able to start living on your own, so if you want to live with your girlfriend do so.
2006-06-28 02:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Tim D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I guess somebody else had it right when they said this is one you have to answer for yourself and that it will depend on your circumstances.
This may sound obvious, but what does she think? Would she be happy to wait for a few years or come with you? If so, there isn't a great problem (apart from missing each other).
I must admit part of me wonders if you don't think she'd wait for a little while if necessary, is not going to work in the long run.
The important thing is to make sure you're not going to look back with any regrets. Hope you make the right decision for you both, bit take comfort from the fact that these things often work out for the best (thouhg I appreciate is not much help).
2006-06-29 09:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Spike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lover boy, do you have children with your 6 year girl friend? Your question would be more comprehend able if rephrased more specifically. How on God's green earth are you 22, and have found the girl of your dreams? Have you found your own dreams in life? You are just a baby, live and love life and yourself before you screw it up with the opposite sex. Speaking from experience, I am 28 with two daughters from the 10 year relationship I am just getting out of. I'm beginning my second life, and it's like a baby bird just learning how to fly, but with two kids and a career to handle on a daily basis. Don't screw up your youth being "in love".
2006-06-28 03:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Felt Trapped? certain. wanted to leave domicile at 15- actually. Is it a good theory? Nope. look; the "city" -ANY city- is not any position for the "desires" of a fifteen 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old... carry on the position you're- for yet another 3 Years; end college; get alittle extra existence journey below your belt- & THEN take a crack at it. I promise you; even THEN- you're going to verify that the "genuine international of the huge city..."- is not any picnic... :0
2016-11-29 21:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First. Calm down. Then list all the positives of each action, and all the negatives. Give yourself time to think about it all, without feeling pressured to make a decision. then, when you think you are clearer about all your motives, you might have a little talk with your girl..Maybe she'd really like to go to Cal with you? Money is important - it makes having a good relationship so much easier.
2006-06-28 03:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by Delora Gloria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mm. If you marry, she ought to be included in the resident card. I think. And when you get there, you can just hit it off on your own, the two of you.
If she doesn't want to go - well, in that case... I would stay. But then, I have a good job and wouldn't be bothered by staying.
2006-06-28 02:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 22. This may be a mistake but you need to figure that out for yourself. I say go and see what happens. You will regret it for the rest of you life if you dont. Your family will take you back in their arms if you come back. Thats what families do. So go for it and see if she is the one!
2006-06-28 03:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by The Answer Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well six years is quite a while, sounds like a pretty solid relationship. Also calling your family messed up makes me think you may be better off to stay where you are. Good luck to you.
2006-06-28 02:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by Vivreici 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like where you are living or just want to stay with the girl? Either way at your age do what you want to do. You're old enough to decide for yourself.
2006-06-28 03:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by Christina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-think about it all you want;this is harsh but fact -if she is the one and your love is true-it'll survive this-won;t it !-good luck in your love and the new future you are setting out to build for it:either that or end up resenting her or yourself for not doing what you Know in your heart is the best thing.x
2006-06-28 03:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by Tommy D. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging from the words you use: "messed up family" and "girl of your dreams," it sounds like you've already made up your mind.
2006-06-28 03:02:57 · answer #11 · answered by juanes34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋