"wheter to stay w/or leave man who wants me to lose weight"
He wants me to lose weight to look sexy again, I`ve lost my looks.I used to have a very attractive body.
there are other problems too, 2 years ago he had an affair and wanted me out, but took me back after affair didn`t work.
we don`t connect anymore, he`s at one end of the house i`m @ the other
we have a young son
2006-06-28 02:19:42 · 8 answers · asked by mis12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it's over it's over. You losing weight will not solve the issues in your marriage. Trust me....i'm right there with you and I know! I have a 1 year old daughter. You can try reconnecting or i've found a lot of help in doing the book Relationship Rescue by Dr. Phil. It's nice because you're working on your relationship and you don't have to have your husband there with you to do it. If you feel good about yourself, don't worry about losing weight. If YOU would feel better dropping a few pounds do it....but do it for you and to show a healthy example for your son. I hope everything works out. Oh and if you're still trying to deal with your husbands infidelity the book After the Affair is a great read. It's something your husband could read too because it shows both sides of the situations. I really wish all the best for you and your family.
2006-06-28 02:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It don't sound like things are going to work out. my Ex had cheated on me in the first 2 yrs that we were together and I took him back and the some thing happened that your talking about. My problem was that I stayed with him for another 10 yrs. because of our kids together. It was a very lonely relationship.
I think that you should try to lose some weight if you think that your not sexy any more and really start to look good, then keep your eye out for someone that you could have a great relationship with. Good Luck.
2006-06-28 02:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by NS42day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-31 09:30:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you go back after the affair? In my opinion, you have a self-esteem problem. Fix that first, then worry about your relationship, should you still see a need for it.
2006-06-28 02:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to say goodbye. If he doesn't love you for who you are, instead of what you look like, he isn't worth the space he takes up, for real. Also, once a cheater, always a cheater! Get rid of him. You deserve much better.
2006-06-28 02:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by jojof2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that sounds awful i would have left him when he cheated on u the first time. i think u should. as for your son well there is always joint custity (sp). do what u have to do. nobody can really tell you what to do. when it comes to these kinda things you have to come first in this situation. do what makes you happy. good luck.
2006-06-28 02:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him if he don;t love you the way you are then maybe he not the right person for you my bf keep tell me to put some weight on but i don;t listen to him bc it my life and i love the way i;m
2006-06-28 02:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorse him if he is like that
2006-06-28 02:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋