Ok girls, i've noticed alot of girls doing this, so i need your opinion. Girls that hang together are always trying to dress better and look preetier than the others, why are they so competative? They then become jelous and say nasty things about each other but still remain friends, why? Why do girls usually find girl friends that are less pretty than them to hang out with? Are girls this self centered, insecure and psycho?
2006-06-28 02:18:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
that's why i hung out with a lot of gay friends when i was younger. i had one guy friend who was gay, and was always makin me look good for the guys, and i had no competition because we were going for different guys...gay & straight!
i was always the less pretty one that got stuck with the beauties. i agree...they used me to look better themself. i even had one friend kiss my boyfriend because of a dare! and i was right there! i dropped him...but i kept her as a friend. as a boyfriend, he shouldn't have allowed it..but as far as my friend, it was a dare so she had to go through with it. it was his bad...he didn't have to go through with it!!
and yes, many girls are self centered. i hate that. and as for phycho, you're totally correct! girls are catty, and will turn on you in a dime if there's any reason to do so. that's why i remain friendless...i mean, i talk with them at work, but i never really get serious with them, because there has always been some point that they turned on me. so when they do, it was expected, and i do not dwell over it.
2006-06-28 02:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 16⤊ 8⤋
I don't want to sound defensive but i think not all girls like that, like what you have described, are "self-centered, insecure and psycho" nor they are "competitive." We, girls, just want to look good. Actually almost all of us girls are really into fashion trend, no matter how much others deny it. About the nasty things that we say about each other, well we don't take it seriously. That's why "we still remain as friends." Aren't you guys also like that?
For the other dark side of trying-to-dress-better-and-look-prettier-than-the-others girl, well then you are right. They are the "self-centered, insecure, and psycho" kind of girl. These girls need many self-help books, I think, for they lack a great amount of self-esteem. Pretty much pathetic and need much change. But I still think that they need a really great amont of understanding.... Anyway, why are you asking about it?
2006-06-28 09:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by Shine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only rich girls with money who have 1st class mamas and daddies can afford dressing contest.
Only girls who have a very low self esteem and take the cheap way out by calling the other names instead of finding better friends who care what happens to them.
If a girl hangs out with another girl because she isn't attractive it's either because they really are friends or the other girl has something the pretty girl needs. I've seen it in High School, the girl got her candy because she liked her.
Not all girls but yes they are out there....self centered, insecure and psycho.
2006-06-28 09:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahha this is so true and i have live through this we WERE a group of friends and we all talked about each other but I guess that we all remained friends for as long as we did was because we were the "cool" group and no only but we were the "pretty girls" and we stuck togehter you could say
we were all allowed to go out and hang out so we stuck together and in the end everyone has gone their own way because everyone talked about each other mind you there are still a few girls in the group...
i guess they are scared to find a new group of friends
2006-06-28 09:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by nikkig813 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like that usually have to be the center of attention and can't stand it if someone else steals her spotlight. I have had a group of friends like that once before, but completely got rid of them, and now have nothing to do with them because I always felt like I wasn't good enough for them, and felt like I was constantly being measured up to them.
those type of girls have a lot of growing up to do, and really don't know what the "real world" is all about... and it's sure as heck not about them!
pretty shallow and pathetic, huh?
2006-06-28 09:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by creativestarwish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Females are very social creatures. They are also biologically driven to compete for a man's attention the same way men do for women. Don't be shocked. It's not that all women are trying to be catty. It's just nature. Also, some women are simply immature.
2006-06-28 09:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by Treblacram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this scenario applies solely to women. It takes a certain kind of individual who needs to be the center of attention. If they are the better looking amongst their group then they are likely to receive the most attention. It's only once you get to know them that you realize they are the least attractive.
2006-06-28 09:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by Kya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what girls are you around? not all girls are like that and teh girls that are, seem really stupid and shallow.
yess girls like to be pretty and be the center of attention but most of us know when to move over and let someone else in.
Usualy girls that care so much about their looks take pride and having pretty friends themselves and wouldn't be caught dead havign 1 ugly friend.Most girls will always say nasty stuff about otehr girls but if theire friends with them and they always do this about eachother thats not friendship, they stick together because they think they have to and it gives them more power. Its High school all over again. you say girls are like this but what about guys?
sure you may be friends with ugly guys and your super sexy hot but you won't date an ugly girl
2006-06-28 09:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never noticed that
In fact the older I get the less girlfriends I have. I am 32 yrs old.
I try to make myself pretty for myself and my husband. I could give two shits about how other girls look.
2006-06-28 09:22:24 · answer #9 · answered by Utopia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are just as competitive as men just at diffent things, we get so jealous when a girl looks better than we do. that is good for guys because when we try to look better it usually involves showing some more skin.
2006-06-28 09:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by shanesha n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me it is hard to live with u go to skool every day and u have to worry about wut u where and its not just that we watn to look good we look up to those movie stars and things that become a role model so we think if they are famous and popular for whereing those clothes then it will make me popular and id say yes girls can be self centered insecure and phsyco
2006-06-28 09:43:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋