A matter if infidelity?

Question

What would you do if you Googled your wifes email account name and found an online profile at a dating site where she is looking for men. She states she's single and dating. She also says she's looking for a man with kids because the one's she's been dating lately don't understand her busy schedule.

I forgot to mention... she has her picture on there so I know it's her ... and it's dated 1 month ago. she's had 4 replies from men and it states she's gone on dates.

I strongly urge you to google your significant other's screen name. if it's [e-mail] for example ... Google the word joeblow and check out what you find. This is an eye opener!

Answer 1

Print the evidence on hard copy and prepare it for your divorce lawyer in the event you'll need it when you speak of this matter to your wife and she engages in a verbal fight with you. Count on odds being the marriage is irreparably kaput

Keep the evidence secret till it has to be presented in court. Keeping your opponent off balance in divorce court can be to your advantage.

Answer 2

Here's my take...and this is just me...
The internet is a really cool place to explore...sometimes in order to sample different sites...you have to assume a certain personna.

You're probably pretty hot that she'd be so dumb as to attempt this....but unless she's taking sudden trips for long periods of time somewhere...she's probably just checking things out...
and not unfaithful to you.

You can probably deliver the message best by printing up her profile, and leaving it by the computer so she can see you saw it.

You don't need an excuse from her...she'll probably tell you she knows nothing about it anyways....
...and her curiosity will wane.

Good luck with this...but it's probably nothing more than innocent experimentation - if I'm wrong and she goes out on the weekends...then you have a problem that needs to be addressed.

Answer 3

Sounds to me like your wife is seeking attention elsewhere, I have a bf of 14 years who spends anywhere`s from 3-5 hours most day on the internet and deletes all his History, I know he`s seeking something so is your wife.

Answer 4

I would confront her about it in a calm manner. Don't go crazy off the back. Be honest, and don't beat around the bush....in a sense of way, kinda catch her off guard. Make sure no food is in her mouth or she may just choke on it.

Answer 5

There is usually a date of when they signed in last time or when the profile was posted. If that is recent then confront her.

Answer 6

Confront her with the evidence. If she is really doing this than chances are she has cheated on you already. If you really want to work things out than go to couples counseling, if not then get a good attorney.

Answer 7

mmm..interesting..my husband did the same thing..admitted as not trying to hurt me..cos I am not suppose to know...he apologized for his mistakes and cut off all relationship. I am still deeply hurt and trying to forget it. So I wonder if your wife will admit mistake...still wondering today if he had sex with the women though...Who knows really??? Was it that she fall out of love?? I wonder that too with my husband.

Answer 8

confront her, ask her, and maybe she has an addictive problem that you as being the one closest to her could help her with. If she openly admits it then dump her you certainly deserve better than that

Answer 9

Dont go looking for something on your wife and then get upset for what you find.

Answer 10

Had this happen to a friend! Print it out and take it to a lawyer