its become soo boring now....nothings special .....
2006-06-28 00:42:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Have you tried to talk with your girlfriend about how you feel? When my sweetie feels like nothing is special, she talks with me and says "I miss when we used to ..." or "I feel like we are in a rut, do you think so too?" She usually gets the ball rolling and brings her dissatisfaction with the status quo to my attention. You can do the same.
Another idea is for each of you to list all the things you like and don't like about the relationship and compare your lists. You probably already know this, but when sharing your lists, do so in a positive and non-confrontational way.
Then again, if this all sounds like too much work, figure out what you would like in the relationship and talk with her about that.
JC
2006-06-28 01:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a mini vacation- go on a short trip somewhere you have never been- both of you put your ideas in a hat and the one that is pulled is the one you do first, then switch on and off for the next few outings- we did this with friends but I found it fun when done with my significant other also.
2006-06-28 04:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by cariann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together. if not too long, plan some surprises for her. When I first date with my girl friend, I always plan for surprises for her.
Do some silly thing like singing her favourite song to her.
Cherish her if you really love her
2006-06-28 01:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her for a kiss!
2006-06-28 01:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by ronit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋