Weird huh! We can give all these details about personal relationships and how we feel and answers we need, yet it should be so much easier just to ask the person our questiosn directly relates to, and whom it affects. Do you think it is because we are scared and we require the second opinion or fear of being judged by those close to use. Thats what I fear. Or is it because no matter how close you are to someone you can never ask them all that you want because you don't want to jeopardize a good thing.
2006-06-28 00:12:05 · 10 answers · asked by Reality 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u already know the answers to ur own question my friend.ur absolutely right that we fear risking our own relationship with our loved one.
like i cant tell the guy who's my best friend that i've alwayz loved him coz like many other ppl,losing our friendship is the greatest fear in my heart. It sounded wierd to me when earlier ppl asked this ques "will r frndship b affected if i tell my frend that i love him/her???"
But now i can completely understand why it happens............ coz even i dont wanna lose him like them!!!!!!!!!
hope u r noy facing nething of that sort :-)
lolz.....................
2006-06-28 00:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird just human! Your right! Why ask strangers? For alot of people it is easier to speak with an unknown person, then to the one they should be talking to, but the fact is here I am answering your question and you don't know me and I don't know you therefore you can't judge me and I can't judge you See!! I can't tell you what type of person you are through a ques. I can get an idea of your thinking pattern but not your heart! I say when it comes to talking with the ones who are involved just say what you have to say. Good bad or indifferent I just think it is best to be honest. Just be careful with your honesty, watch yours words so you won't diss., insult or hurt feelings. It will take a load of stress off your shoulders. Keeping it inside only makes you crazy. Tell the person what's on your mind maybe they will accept it or maybe they won't but learn to be true with yourself, because if you lose that you have lost everything. Talking can only let you see and understand the morals of someone else and if it jeopardize everything better late then never at least you will have the truth.
2006-06-28 00:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by friendship 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try to be a honest as I can . So here I go. It shouldn't be easier to talk to a stranger about your personal relationship. If your afraid to jeopardize relationship what kind of relationship do you have with this person. when to two are in love they should be able to be honest with each other and if it some thing that can be changed then they should be willing to change it. But don't say it out of anger say it out of love.
2006-06-28 00:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by diamondblue382000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a little of everything I think, and the main thing is that you can ask the question and you never have to face the person you are asking, and see their face or look of disapproval later. It is, I guess, an issue where since no one knows who you are there is guaranteed privacy
2006-06-28 00:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are anonymous to the people that you are asking here as you are to them. Therefore, you do not have to worry about what people that you know will think about you. At times it helps you make a decision to get another person's opinion on a problem.
2006-06-28 00:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by older woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's enlightenment?, i do not comprehend what you're asking, sounds as in the experience that your asking something about Buddha or similar, yet i comprehend that the bible does say "ask inspite of you may and it is going to likely receive you, seek for and also you shall locate, knock, and the door will be opened, for whoever asks to him that is given and to whoever seeks, he shall locate and whoever knocks to him that is opened, for which of you'll supply your son a stone even as he asks you for nutrition, sure I allow you to comprehend for even as depraved as you're you'll supply your son nutrition even as he asks you for nutrition, how a lot extra will your Heavenly Father supply good issues to those who ask Him. Oh!, and certain!, that is that straight forward, in straight forward words believe that you receive and also you shall have what you ask for, you won't be able to be like the waves of the sea that come and pass, ask what you'll yet no longer something wavering, which skill do not ask one aspect then replace your recommendations and ask something diverse then replace back and back NO!, ask one secure aspect and believe for that, era.
2016-11-29 21:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by whipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we dont want to jeopardize a good thing.
but other times we are more relaxed when we pour out our hearts to strangers cos we dont know them & they dont know us either......beside's people we're with, will always find faults in whatever we do or say to them.........so its not weird we just feel very comfortable with strangers.
2006-06-28 00:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by slimpep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because sometimes you're afraid of what others think and you could care less about what a stranger thinks...which brings us to another area: since you don't care about strangers and they too do not care about you, how much weight do you want to put into their answers?
2006-06-28 00:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone's different and it's good to see it from a different perspective.
We all can't visualise situations from our own viewpoint.
2006-06-28 00:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom has not told you lately don't talk to strangers.
2006-06-28 00:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by devid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋