2006-06-28 00:03:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the internet is full of married men , perverts , and you name it talking to women
get over it
2006-06-28 00:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, recognize that you can't be "in love" with someone on the Internet. Love takes a whole lot more than tippy-tap typing back and forth - and like the old Far Side comic indicated: no one knows you are a dog on the Internet. You can only scratch the surface of getting to know someone on the Internet - and the anonymity of the Internet breeds dishonesty - people are not as open as they would have to be in person.
So you are not IN LOVE with someone on the Internet.
Second, ....oh, how do I say this ?,......THEY ARE MARRIED!!!! That means they are taken - off the market - not available. So what do you do ? You change your screen name, change your e-mail address, and stop contacting them. If people want to be out of their marriage, there is a little thing called "divorce" - and you are SUPPOSED to go through it BEFORE you start on other relationships.
Leave this person alone and find someone with whom you can have some personal contact before you decide you are in love.
2006-06-28 00:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not going to be critical like I know that most people will be when answering this question but I will tell you to guard your heart carefully because the risk of finding out that this man is playing you while loving his wife is there but on the other hand it may be that the marriage has been beyond saving and that he wants to move on. Im not saying that cheating is right but I do understand how it can happen. I guess the question is are you willing to take such a big risk?
2006-06-28 00:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by tmoondove28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, to love someone on the internet is truly absurd (in my opinion). It's hard to know if they're telling the truth, or some shmuck that could be leading you on with sweet words and even copying and pasting quotes from the internet to woo you. Dont let yourself or anyone you know be caught up with some stranger on the internet. Especially if they claim to be married o.0
2006-06-28 00:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by lalala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you fall in love with someone you haven't met, touched or been with?
You should steer clear of married people, because even if they go with you, what's to stop them later on leaving you for somebody else on the internet?
2006-06-28 00:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love, you're in love with the idea of a faceless creature that sits a computer keyboard and types back and forth to you and gives you attention.
This isn't love dude!!!....They're married and playing the internet game. They lie, the embellish themselves into making you believe they're one way and in truth they're not.
Find yourself someone real...Tangible. Someone in real life that you can build a relationship from.
2006-06-28 00:07:25 · answer #6 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's just love on the Internet you need to leave it in this fantasy world and not interfere with the married family. what ever you do will come back to bite you. chances are the person you love on the Internet will never leave their family/spouse...you are being used
2006-06-28 00:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by notyours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect the person to leave their husband or wife for you. You are an internet buddy. Most likely, you are helping the person you are in love with "get off" in some way. If you're having sexual conversations online, you can BET that's what you're doing for them. They are not going to "LOVE" you back, or leave their spouse for you. They will talk to you as long as it helps them "get off".
Try this:
If you're having sexual conversations, stop having them for awhile. See if he/she still talks to you.
or,
Ask them upfront what the nature of your relationship is. You'll be surprised how hard that question might be for them to HONESTLY answer.
Ask them, "Do You Love Me?"
Ask them, "Do you want to be with me?"
Ask them, "Will you leave your husband/wife/children for me?
Ask them, "WHY are you involving yourself with me?"
If they cannot answer these questions, you should not bother yourself with him/her anymore. It is just a waste of your heart.
2006-06-28 00:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by happy-dance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its bad enough that you are in love with a person you meet on the internet and if that person is married....thats even worse..RUN AWAY..
2006-06-28 00:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by scumbag_on_a_mission 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone single that you can be happy with. A married person will just lie to you and never leave his wife for you.
2006-06-28 00:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋