grrr it reli pisses me off sum1 please help! he talks to her everyday and winds me up that he fancies her....i think she likes him too. a few weeks ago he was even planning to meet her. the thing is i don't want to be jealous and possessive, but i also don't want to feel undermined by this girl! any ideas?
2006-06-27 23:47:42 · 25 answers · asked by whench85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Masturbate in front of him while your talkin to some hot guy
2006-07-01 12:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by El Mariachi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, decide what YOU want.
Do you want him to stop talking to her? If you do, you should tell him. If he won't, then he does not show adequate respect for you. You should decide if you are comfortable with him not respecting your feelings in this way. If you're fine with that, carry on, he's going to talk to her and possibly meet her and maybe more. There's always that chance.
If you're not fine with that, then BY ALL MEANS do not settle for that. You can leave him for it. You don't have to think you're being overbearing and possessive. If it bothers you, nothing will change that. The only thing that will change that is if he stops talking to her, or if you leave him.
Don't expect someone to change. They won't.
Instead, ask yourself if you are willing to be with that person, despite the things you don't like. If the answer is NO, you can't stand that about him, it will always bother you, then you should not stay with him. There are many, many other people out there, you don't HAVE to make it work.
Be free, be open, be honest, tell him it bothers you and if he doesn't stop, make a decision. Stay or Go.
IF you stay, be prepared for this to be a constant problem, something that will always be there.
Good luck dear.
2006-06-28 00:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by happy-dance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry have to say yeah Get shot of him and all that if that's what you really want.
But before I went anywhere I'd get on his computer and scare the living **** out of her!
IE. Pretend to be him while doing it, but say it's time to come clean your 52 with x3 kids and a dustman (or something worse) That's the good news cos the bad is your wife's found out and is a private eye who's now gunning for her.
She'll never e mail again problem solved.
Whether you stay or go, if you leave you leave knowing he's now sat pineing for you with all the time in the world as his hot chick won't want to chat any longer!!!
If you stay you have the result you wanted but need never let him no it really bothered you at all!!
Good luck
2006-06-28 13:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say sweetheart yet u do not deserve that no individual merits to be dealt with that way alot of folk would say im youthful im dumb i do not no something i comprehend not in any respect stay in a relationship the position u experience like the outsider im 17 me an my boyfriend been jointly for 5 years hes 19 he might want to have ladies images in his telephone 1/2 *** bare an there names as lil horny or vast butt etc. an i pulled him up about it he had my call lower than nana(nickname) he were given his act jointly replaced All that reason he knew i might want to leave see boy attempt to get us to have self belief o we became jointly for this era of time so it would want to be no factor purely the different day he attempt to cuss me out about me donning heels i form an im particularly tall 6'a million so for sure human beings might want to objective to hit on me an what no longer i do not cheat not in any respect so he attempt bo cuss me out i instructed wasn't having it so i broke it off remind u this three hundred and sixty 5 days made it 5 years he were given my call tattooed on his arm wondering that turned right into a fashion to make me stay wasn't he were given his act jointly an now we back to the position we all started satisfied
2016-10-13 22:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by charis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r u putting up with this? if u don't want to be jealous and possessive then throw him out. if he were my boyfriend he would be shown the door hoping that it kicked him on the way out! have a bit of respect for yourself and get rid of him Hun, before he does go and meet her and leaves u. then you'll just be feeling sorry for yourself for letting yourself be hurt like this. obviously its gonna hurt but come on don't be such a mug!
2006-06-28 00:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI Be more of a hot chick than she is. don't show him you are jealous just change the way you dress to go out. and when you have a night out with the girls. he will be the one worrying someone will be chatting up his hot sexy chick. play fire with fire.if you put your mind to it you can be more sexy to him than she could ever be. because you should know what he likes. so go for it girl. he will not know what as hit him.sammylee,
2006-06-28 07:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by sammylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you putting up with this?
She's not undermining you - he is, and you're letting him.
Why not try chatting to this girl online yourself and let her know the situation - he's probably leading her to beleive all manner of fantasy and she may appreciate you putting her right.
If this fails...smash the computer!!!
2006-06-28 00:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but i thinik hes trying to tell you he doesn't feel the same way about you as he did before. Dont get hurt talk to him if this is right then you shouldn't stay together because your just gonna get hurt.
2006-07-02 00:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find ur self a 'hot male' on the net and rub it in his face by saying how nice he is an dat hes attractive an stuff (even tho ur jus makin it up 2 get bak at him lol) hel soon b jelus an will ask questions bout ur new 'hot male' lol gd luk
2006-06-27 23:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by ♥abi♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be jealous. hes through with you and b4 he tells u that u chuck him and teach him a lesson! find another much loving and caring one. after all there are many fish in the sea
2006-06-27 23:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by phoneybird4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with him? He's neglecting you and also seems to spend more time with this woman than you, maybe you should get in the first word and end it before he does.
2006-06-27 23:51:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋