How do you refind your first love? If you fell out of touch 13 years ago how would you find them again?

Question

I don't know where he went to school. Have searched friends reunited. he's not registered. I'm not sure really where he lived. I knew him when he lived in a childrens home. I'm not interested in reigniting old flames just getting in touch with someone who I really liked!

Answer 1

As far as finding them goes, you can always do a People Search in the Yahoo Directory, providing either you have a general idea of their location, or they have a last name that is so uncommon that there would be few to show up on the search.

But, here's the real question. Are you sure you really want to look this person up after all these years? I don't know why the two of you parted 13 years ago, but, chances are he (I am assuming you are heterosexual) has probably gone on with his life, and could very well be married with children. If that is the case, I am sure his wife, and probably even himself, would not appreciate you walking into their lives at this stage. This is merely speculation, mind you. Maybe he never married, and has been wondering how you have been doing as well. But I have read many cases of how children who were given up for adoption as infants tried to find their biological parents as adults, and when they did, they were turned away, after being told they were the result of a one night stand, and the mother did not want her current family to know anything about it.

We all have loves from the past we wonder about from time to time. But 13 years is a long time, and he has probably changed a lot since you last saw him. The past is something we can only have as a memory, we can never recapture it again.

Answer 2

im not sure where you live but intellius would have all the info you need if yur in america if your in australia then there are so many ways just by aname with all the info sites on the net start by going to people search,all you need is aname all the rest will show up no matter if you knew where they lived 13 years ago you will have no problems at all,think about this you might think about him but do you think it would be right to try to track him down after 13 years if he hasnt come looking for you,i know there would be a gap in your heart needing filling but 13 years on people can make huge moves witht here life just dont want you to get heart broken all over knowing you couldnt have them once you found them

Answer 3

well maybe their married by now. But if you just wanna be friends, try old school searches (friends reunited etc) some people register to find out how everyones doing.

Answer 4

I just had a girl write to me i havent seen for 25 years... she's not a lover, but it sure was nice... Friends Reunited is where she got my email..

Answer 5

You need to recal lwhere you went and any addresses which may help you find them. You cannot afford not to take the chance of a lucky break sometimes they do happen however unlikely.

Answer 6

friends reunited find your school or the school they went to the year they left and you can contact them if they are registered. it costs 7.50

Answer 7

Well if you went to school together you might be able to get hold of them via friends re-unted. They might be looking for you too!

Answer 8

maybe you can ask help from your old teacher or classmates or neighbor or friends, and you also can put an advertisement on the local newspaper, i think that must be useful. hehe.

Answer 9

well you either ask around.........or you find out from friends that was you guys way back if they know any1 who happens to have info about the person..............wish you luck in your search.

Answer 10

Contact the Maury show..........lol