she left me why?can i live happily? a year back incidentally i came to know a girl in phone.i met her 5 times

Question

i went to her city 5 times and 3 days each time.she had a break up earlier and was unhappy. my compassion had given her relief.she started loving me.her friends said she was very carreristic but good gal. i am still studying computer engineering and will get job after completion.she passed out and got a job 6 months ago but havent told me. she have not said all the things about her ex . and i enquired her a lot and believed at her words. i loved her so i only kissed her and hugged.1 year have passed.she wanna break up now.she has a lot of friends in boys and very interested in keeping all of them live in her life.even she hides me a lot of facts about her friendships.she is greedy of money.i was insecured all the way for all her behaviour.now as she got job she wanna break upand says i dont provide space.she have broken all her promises and lied me in ths one year in a lot many things that i caught later.should i stay with her.she used to be vry irresbonsible ,arrogant.dos she lov

Answer 1

How amazing that we tend to want the things that no one else wants. Why do we put up with phony people, thinking that our love and respect will change their dispositions? My dear, you must rid yourself of negativity - then you can move forward and see the direction you must take. Forget about this immature girl/woman and let fate take over. You will realize the time spent trying to deal with her, only made things worse.- you apparently needed to experience this before moving on to better things in life. Good luck, as you should demand better. You deserve better.

Answer 2

Here's How:

1. Bond with other Singles.
At any given time, you probably have a mix of friends in loving relationships as well as those searching for love. Don't be afraid to look-up single friends you haven't seen or spoken to in awhile and make plans for Friday and Saturday night. You'll stay busy on the weekend and maybe even rekindle an old friendship.

2. Start a Social Hobby.
If there is a hobby or activity you have been meaning to try for the first time, or take-up again, this is your chance. Focus on activities that allow you to meet new and interesting people. Examples might include a cooking class, sports league, or bridge club.

3. Go Easy on the Next Person you Meet.
Beware of continuing unfinished business with the next person you meet. If you didn't have a chance to truly close the door on your last relationship, don't project your open issues on the next unsuspecting soul. See the new person as a clean slate and allow the relationship to unfold with no connections to your past.

4. Don't Sling Shot your Ex.
It can be very tempting, particularly on lonely nights, to look up your ex or accept an invitation from your ex for a rekindle. The more you fall back on your old ways, the harder it will be to truly move on. Don't fall for the short term satisfaction of a night out or easy hook-up at the expense of stirring up all the hurt from the breakup.

5. Apply What You've Learned.
Take out a journal and write down everything that went well versus what could have been better in your relationship. Be honest since you're the only one looking at the entry. What could you do better next time? What positive traits did your ex possess that you should look for in the next relationship, or maybe even incorporate into your own style?
6. Talk About Something Else.
Everyone goes through a period of venting to their friends and family about what went wrong and how your ex deserves to go straight to prison. It's okay to do a little venting, but spare your inner circle from an endless tirade for months at a time. Commit to yourself that the next time you call a close friend, you'll focus exclusively on them. This will help you get out of your head for awhile and start feeling normal again.
Good luck!!

Answer 3

People say they 'find' love, as if it were an object hidden by a rock. But love takes many forms, and it is never the same for any man and woman. What people find then is a certain love.

Love, like rain, can nourish from above, drenching couples with a soaking joy. But sometimes, under the angry heat of life, love dries on the surface and must nourish from below, tending to its roots, keeping itself alive.

Lost love is still love. It takes a different form, that's all. You can't see their smile or bring them food or tousle their hair or move them around a dance floor. But when those senses weaken, another heightens. Memory. Memory becomes your partner. You nurture it. You hold it. You dance with it.

Answer 4

Dump her and leave!!!! She obviously doesn't hold much value on you as a person or the relationship or cares about your feelings etc. DUMP her! Finish your schooling and just be patient! The right one for you will come along when the time is supposed to happen. It sounds to me that you were helpful to her in many ways when she needed someone but isn't willing to give anything of value herself.

Answer 5

You should be glad she out from your life,honestly in some corner of your hart you also feel better and safe,but your mind is not agree with you,when you know so much about this girl,even in your own words she was lier greedy,dishonest and selfish, after knowing so many things about her if you still think about this girl then I think you are............ you know what I mean. Get to normal life and concrete on your studies and make this girl a history in your life.

Answer 6

NO! go now.the pain you feel will pass with time.dont rush into a new relationship trying to fill the void left by the last on.there is someone out there thet will love you for who you are.it sound to me that you are better off without someone that lies and manipulates.good luck

Answer 7

Sounds like you caught her on the rebound, and that is just bad timing for you because it seldom works out. Nothing stopping you from trying to date her though. Don't try to convince her to go back to the way things were, just ask her out like you just met her. Good luck.

Answer 8

Yes because she has a problem and problems can be easily fixed. But ilf you don't tell her about her problem she may never be the same again so do your self a favor and tell her she is acting weird she will eventually come around and love you again.

Answer 9

You can do better. She has more problems than she probably thinks she does. She's most likely insecure if she displays that kind of arrogance and over assurance. Good luck with future endeavours... oh and ugh.... you can do better :)

Answer 10

Don't waste your time on her. Chicks like that are a dime a dozen. If she's not worth a 50-cent phone call, bail out now.

My rule: Don't date chicks who wouldn't bail you out of jail. Don't sound like she would.