through a friend, my girl f living far away sends me a gift but I have a new girl f who is near me for 2 weeks. I want to bring the new gf with me to take that gift, should I? I wanna do it cause:
- via that friend, I want to inform the ex-gf that I have a new gf.
- I wanna show the new gf that I am proud to have some other girls who like me.
Pls give me idea, should I do it ???
2006-06-27 22:28:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. It sounds like you are willing to hurt someone to make yourself look bigger in the eyes of another .... this will make you not just look smaller ... .but make you smaller ... indeed.
2006-06-27 22:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it's naive to show off that you have another girls who like you. Second, I don't think your new gf would feel proud or happy or any positive feeling about you haven't broken up with your ex girl. Also, it's irresponsible to have new gf before you break up with your ex gf. If you treat this situation badly, you may hurt two girls. Please don't be selfish.
2006-06-28 07:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by Earthman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're going ahead with this super ego plan of yours then be rest assured that
a) the ex-gf will know that you have a new gf.
b) the friend will know you're a two timing bastard
c) the new gf will dump you knowing you were cheating on her while the ex was still on with you .
so here's your answer . hope u make sense of it .
2006-06-28 05:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by dxb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isn't good for your new gf.. same time as you could inform your ex that you have new gf on different way.. you'll just hurt your ex if you did that..tell him frankly not via friend or who ever.... much good if it comes directly on you.. ok?!
2006-06-28 05:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by @>-VyNe--- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this would be putting your new girlfriend in a bad position. And it's also vengeful to do that to your ex. Be a man and tell your ex it's over and that you've moved on.
2006-06-28 05:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wrong all the way.
No double game.
Have a g/f at one time and try to have good long term relationship?
Otherwise, you will be called Male Prostitute.
2006-06-28 05:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so that your new GF can start saving money for buying gifts for you to collect with your newer GF ...
2006-06-28 05:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are asking for a cat fight , do not bring the two together until you tell the ex about your new friend
2006-06-28 05:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by susie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do anything for the new but respect the ex
2006-06-28 05:30:53 · answer #9 · answered by Elito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dumbo.try to understand a girl's mind.if u wanna break ur x's heart then do it directly.more over girls r not stupid as u think they r.
2006-06-28 05:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by junky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋