Which would you rather have??????
A man that is a good provider, good father, and takes care of his business, but his fault is that his is a dog and cheats on you.
A man that is a good father, very faithful, takes care of business, but he won't work for SH*T.
(Notice that there is no option where getting your a$$ beat is an option).
Well women, what do you think????????
2006-06-27 22:24:16 · 17 answers · asked by simplyfabulous 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't have either one of them.
2006-06-27 22:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by sparkie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if not give a choice, I would not choose either.....I would wait for a man that had all the good qualities. But since you want us to choose......I would choose the good provider, father, etc but is a dog that cheats on you. The reason why is I could deal better not saying I would like it but I could deal especially since he is still taking care of home and handling his business. I had a man that cheated and treated me like a dog but did not take care home or handle his business and my life was miserable. So that's my answer.
2006-06-28 12:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i had to choose between just those 2 men then i guess i would choose the one who is a good father and dont cheat.. If he beat my *** then i would not have no man at all i would be single and take care of my kids alone there is such a thing as being a single parent its hard but it can be done. Been there wore the T shirt... Good luck men are not worth all of that crap...
2006-06-28 05:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by paramedic9742 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like this question (made me stop and think a second or two.) I'm old.. 53/F and hell I'd rather have the first.. one that's a cheating dog.. I've changed my mind from my 'youth'.. (yeah, I'd have picked the second guy when I was a kid..) I think two can play at the 'dog.. cheating game' and screw it! You can run off on the first guy, the cheating asshole and cheat your lil heart off! (Be a bummer doing routine checks for the std's.. ha) I know a lotta woman are gonna pick the second guy who won't work for ****, because they work... I don't like a lazy goddamned guy..I've got somenbody now stupider than doggie doo who works alright but he's so goddamned lazy I do EVerything around here.. I mean it.. He comes home and sits on his fat lazy ***.. and claims not to know how to 'fix anything' around this house.. (I mow, have a gorgeous yard ..he falls asleep in a lawn chair out front.. for example) hey, I oughta think on it and make up a question on the asshole I live with..lol. (ha, like the getting your assbeat comment by the way..) later mel
2006-06-28 05:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd choose to stay with the man I have. I refuse to keep a cheater or a lazy man. So choice C! Go single and take care of my own business! You don't need a man, you need confidence in yourself.
2006-06-28 05:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real men don't cheat so the only man left to pick from is the later one! Once a cheater...always a cheater. Unemployed...that may change!
2006-06-28 05:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by 8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather a man that won't work than a man that cheats. I don't mind pulling the weight. As long as he's happy then I'm happy too!
2006-06-28 05:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just have a real man like me? Don't put up with cheating or an unemployed boyfriend. You deserve better
2006-06-28 05:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by scubascott16@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i can work, i'll take the lazy one.
You can't trust a cheater and trust is very important in a relationship.
2006-06-28 06:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by Rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't choose either one of these men. Never settle for second best.
2006-06-28 07:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets see ive had both and will never Do that again, too many good men
2006-06-28 05:33:21 · answer #11 · answered by Angel B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋