Even if you believe whole heartedly thats what you want and that you could love them for the rest of your life?
2006-06-27 21:54:14 · 29 answers · asked by Lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
are these other guys for real?
NOO its not too early,
I mean don't be stupid, talk things out figure out what your mutualy goals will be and go through some couple's counseling (most Pastor's require some kind) but GO FOR IT, life is SOO much easier when you don't have to worry about, "is this person the one" as far as "live a little" hey live a lot, your husband can go with you and you dont have to worry about some of these guys hitting on you on the way. Here's some reccommended reads if your still concerned
2006-06-27 22:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by Old Wise One 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Ask yourself why you want to get married. You can be a couple for another 5 years and then get married.
I can tell you personally the person I was at 18 and the person I am now (27) is pretty different.
If you do end up getting married be prepared to have a different relationship then you do now. You will both grow and change as people...could be for the better or it could be for the worst.
2006-06-28 01:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jen11979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, u r still a teenager and ur age is your parents experience in life. You have not seen anything at that age and everything will look n sound promising. The right time will come n then u will thank your lucky stars for saving u from making a bad decision. This advise is from my experience.How I wish I could turn back the time and change things.....Give yourself time till u r in yr mid-twenties.....you'll be wiser and u can't be fooled by others. U can identify what's good n the devil in disguise. MArriage should only happen once in your life...so take your time n pls don rush....cos there is no turning back......It's not nice to carry the title DIVORCEE. Good luck and i hope u seek the lord help for your answer.
2006-06-27 22:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not too young, I believe girls mature early than guys...I'm an example, I married at 18++, my hubby is 7 yrs older, now I'm 24, have 3 kids & I wouldn't change anything in my life right now...but that also depends on your partner, is he stable & cares for you a lot? Marrying a much older guy means stability.
2006-06-27 22:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by fifie girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when we are young we can mislead what our real feelings are.
If you are in love than by all means keep your relation with this guy. And if it is true love than you will surely get married in a couple of years
Why all this hurry?
Why dont you appreciate your youth & freedom. Do things that you surely cannot do them when settled down in marriage
Engagement it is an important time in life that may ruin a relation if skipped.
good luck dear
2006-06-27 22:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Gail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its too young to tie down knot coz you'll realising that years past years will slowly make you mature and think wisely. At your age of 18 is just a beginning of your teenage life where you should enjoy your youth & freedom.
Unless, you are conceived, then I have nothing to say but to tie knot. Whatever it is, I wish you will able to handle marriage life if you have decided to marry.
2006-06-28 01:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if you are in love than follow your heart,It seems to me that when your younger you are more apted to change to fulfill each others needs and you are more vunarable to one another which I feel can be a beautiful thing.But remember you are going to have deal with whatever that person dishes out rather it be infidelity or maybe finacial hardships ect. so be prepared and ask yourself this...If this man changes will I love him still unconditionally?I wish you the best.
2006-06-27 22:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You can't tell that the feeling will remain the same when you reach older age.Besides, y get married soon when you have more opportunities in life..more adventures and fun...more things to do...y think of getting married? that's the least thing you can do...so don't...
2006-06-27 22:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take my advice, YES!!!!!! I just turned 19 when I got married, and now I hate myself for it. I have a miserable marriage, I have two wonderful children that is the only reason I am staying married to him.
2006-06-28 01:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by robocop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, way too young. Its not really about the age factor. Marraige will need a lot of adjusting and will be hard at any age. I think Its better you postpone it and understand people better and whats required of you, before you do it.
2006-06-27 22:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by Doll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋