my 13 year old daughter wants to wear g-strings.should i let her?

Question

she knows that i started wearing g-strings when i was 13.she told me that if i will not let her she is going to wear my g-strings.

Answer 1

let her wear them as long as she is not dropping those drawers to all the guys.

Answer 2

When you wore g-strings at age 13, it was a different world back then. Today, it seems that there are more child molesters, and preverts out there. If you want to subject your daughter to these sick people, or if you want your daughter to get raped, then by all means, let her wear the g-string. Sex cannot be far behind then.
I've read on this forum about 12 year old girls having sex.

Don't let your daughter grow up too fast. Take control and let your daughter see that YOU are the parent - YOU are in charge, not her.

Answer 3

Okay, she is 13 years old, I don't think that you should let your daughter wear g-strings, even though this response is coming from a 15 year old, but still, i don't think that you should let her wear that, she is trying to grow up too fast, and i don't think any child should rush their childhood, its one of the best stages in life. If she try to wear your g-strings, then take a belt and beat her ***, she ain't got no right to sneak in your underwear drawer, and wear what you wear, you can wear them because you're an adult, and shes not, and so what if you did it when you were 13, that don't mean that she have to do it too because you did it.

Answer 4

I am not much older than your daughter, and I remember wanting to wear g strings, but then when I got some I didn't like it at all and went back to wearing my normal underwear, I don't see that it should be a problem, she probably just wants to feel a little more adult and grown up, it doesn't mean she is wanting to have sex. So I say you should let her have a little independence and let her try new things, after all she is growing up.

Answer 5

You'll let her if you are willing to let her have no respect for her body and intimacy. I think putting those disgustingly uncomfortable things mean that you have no value as a person and... is trying to be provocative. Is that what you want for her? And, if it's just a question of panty lines, why not just wear normal underwear that actually has a real reason to be put? Panty lines should not be an issue. She can even wear those little sexy shorts! I do and they're great ;) So, just remember... if you want her to grow up in a world of darkness and being provocative, rebellious and doing who knows what with total independance- or growing up with a mother who really shows herself as one and does her job to keep her child from harm. Good luck!

Answer 6

well, I think 13 is too young for g-strings,
but I'm sure many of her peers do.
So this might be 1 fashion area you could give
in to her wishes ..... as long as it's with the
understanding that she realizes this doesn't
give her the "green light" to progress to other
more complicated "sexy activities". Tell her
the only reason you will consider it is cuz
G-strings aren't visible to boys, and that
you still won't approve of her wearing overly
sexy outfits to try to turn the boy's heads.

The part of your question that I found most
disturbing is where she essentially "told you"
that she was going to wear them whether you
approved or not, by saying she would just
wear yours.

You need to make sure she realizes who is
the boss in your home, cuz if you let her
rebel at 13, you are setting yourself up
for much worse misery the rest of her teen
years.

Good luck to you.

Answer 7

If g strings are such an issue to you then why did you tell her that you started wearing them at 13? Now she has got the ball in her court and shell keep using that against you!
I guess at this point I would allow her to wear them and just hope that she just needs them just for hiding panty lines and nothing more!

Answer 8

What is the big deal about g-strings?
They are not going to change her..I wouldn't waste time on issues like that..
I personally think they are the most uncomfortable thing ever, and the only reason I wear them is if I am not wanting panty marks to show on tight jeans..
They are so unattractive today when there are so many sexy and beautiful underwear around..
At least they are cheap..dreadful things...

Answer 9

I don't think there's any real health issue about wearing g-strings. But I would ask her why it's so important to her.

She's probably just testing her boundries - she thinks you'll say "no" so she wants it more. If the reason isn't "because boys like them" then I say let her wear them.

Answer 10

Just find out why she wants to wear them. If she wants to because she feels awkward in big underwear on gym days changing in the locker room then just let her wear them on gym days at school. If she wants to wear them with the intentions of showing them to a boy that is a no-no and before you know it she will be engaging in sexual contact. If she wants to buy one or two and keep them to wear with certain clothing (i.e. white capris or pants) then let her. Just make sure you monitor her laundry and if she is wearing them at appropriate times. Like you should not find them in her laundry after she has spent the whole day at her boyfriends house! that should be an alert for a parent!

Answer 11

i started wearing them for dance when i was 12, then i got used to them and thought they were comfortable. if she wants to wear them, let her...but start small. don't go out and buy the sexiest ones she can find at victoria's secret. buy some cotton one and then talk to her about it. also make sure u have talked to her about sex! chances are that if she wants to wear a thong, then she knows about sex and has heard things from her peers. also she might only want to wear them to attract guys and so you should ask her if this is her intention. then explain how this can alter her reputation and how that will follow her for the rest of her life. trust me it may be uncomfortable, but my mom did this with me when i started wearing them. it's worth it.