and get job on the same place too? how would you feel and react?
2006-06-27 21:39:57 · 14 answers · asked by @>-VyNe--- 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Totally. His kids are really important and they should spend as much time together as possible. Besides, they are divorced and he married YOU! Pull yourself together, be a real woman and claim that truth! He chose YOU. (now don't make him choose between you and his kids.)
2006-06-27 21:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have to keep in mind that the ex before the wife part is there for a reason. She obviously is not who he wants and if he were to run back to her than he's obviously not who you deserve. In my opinion if ex's can get along that well for the benefit of the children than everyone should not only support this but be glad that it's not an all out battle field between the two of them. A little advice.....don't create problems where they don' t exist because usually it will leave you all by yourself.
2006-06-28 06:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by tmoondove28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would now say not if I plan on having a relationship with him. I was in a relationship like that not long ago and I really trusted him and I wanted him to spend as much time with his kids as he could and I never ever stopped him from spending time with his children. And with him and her working at the same place, seeing eachother all the time he just kept telling me she is my ex. I love you, I could never sleep with her, I didn't want to sleep with her when we were married why would I now, well guess what I got the pleasure of her sharing a few things with me which made it worst, and yea he had been sleeping with her all along. So please think about this, trusting him is great but HELLO can you trust her. I have learned that no they didn't seem to want to sleep together when they were together but after they were divorced I guess they decided they did, and I am the one that is picking up the peices of my life and they are back together and last I heard happy as they can be.
2006-06-28 04:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by jazzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. When they divorced did theydo so on mature grounds or did they have a bunch of drama? Are they civil towards one another or do they fight? Do they both truly care about their kids are do they use them as pawns to get back at each other?
If they are civil towards one another and have the best intentions for the kids and perhaps they have moved on to being mature adults and can be friends instead of enemies and it's a healthy relationship for the kids then I think it's great they have gone beyond the divorce and discovered who they are and are thinking about the kids. However, if there is bitterness, hate and anger and hurt-feelings abounding, not a good move.
2006-06-28 04:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by crash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, specialy talking about kids, it's important for them to have a regularl contact. I dont mind as long as we, both parties have good relationship and beside i do trust my husband. And I think it's also good to have a good relationship with the ex-wife. All is past and what is important is the present and the most important thing here is TRUST. if you both trust each other , there will be no problem.
2006-06-28 05:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No partner has the right to interfere in a man's relationship with his children, or a woman's relationship with her children. Unless it's abusive, but that is not the case here, I suppose. The children were there before you were, they have the prior claim, adjust or make your concerns known clearly and respectfully. Children have the inalienable right to see their parents, and parents the right and the responsibility to see their children.
2006-06-28 04:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be allowed to live near his children, but why does he have to work with her? That is weird. Also, how long ago were they together? if long ago-it is better than recently (just to ease your mind) Also, it depends on how close you will be living ? Next door isn't neccessary, but same zip code is convenient for visitation reasons.
2006-06-28 04:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am doing just that. Imoved my kids a hour from their dad, so that my husband could be never his kids because i felt that they needed us here to take care of the.
2006-06-28 04:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would. This will show your husband that you trust him and besides, his children deserve to have a dad who can be there for them. Your husband will love you more and respect you for this too.
2006-06-28 04:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-06-28 04:42:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋