Both are married, man's wife doesn't know. Woman's husband is getting suspicious, coz she doesnt want to have sex with him anymore. They are ex-lovers before, when they are still singles. Parted by un-avoidable circumstances like job. They have each a child with their respective partners. What should they do?
2006-06-27 21:14:08 · 20 answers · asked by Marcus M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In my opinion the two people involved are obviously unhappy with their lives so they need to decide what exactly it is that they want and move on. If you're unhappy in the marriage let it go and be together but if there's still a chance that they can salvage the marriages than they need to walk away from the affair. In any case a decision must be made. It's not fair to anyone involved if things stay the way that they are.
2006-06-27 23:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by tmoondove28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the two are truly more interested in the affair then they need to man up to the persons being played or decide if their affair is actually even worth having. It is unfair to the other parties and they need to take their feelings into consideration b4 going any further. You cannot tell someone that you love them and mean it if you have the potental to do something that can hurt their hearts and trust. If you are not happy with your spouse then leave and stop the heartache. Question is : Why Cheat?
2006-06-28 04:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by LuvBug132 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit cheating. They are not only cheating their partners and Lying to them and the kids. They are cheating the children. Get out of the marriages and then get together. End those relastionships (such as they are) Then commit to each other..
Never monkey with another monkey`s monkey.......
And if you can`t be trusted with the small things how in the world can you be trusted with big things.
Will you two cheat on each other when things go bad? And they will. What you put out comes back.
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2006-06-28 04:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know I have been in a relationship with a married woman before and I fell in love with her she sat there and lied to me right up until the end about how much she loved me, needless to say she is still with her husband who found out about it I guess, I could care less, I was just screwing aroubnd with 2 different women at the same time lying to them both and I don't care, but you know what? I don't like myself very much right now because I am lying to other people and lying to myself, so I guess if you don't have a problem lying to people about things then go on and continue what you are doing
2006-06-28 04:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get divorced with their existing partners and get married to each other. The affair is not worth it.
2006-06-28 04:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by P S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they need to take into consideration they both have kids know and if this ever blows up they r the ones to get hurt take from experience this the type a thing a son holds a grudge. and never forgets
2006-06-28 04:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by isopropyl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a divorce, no matter the reason a affair is never the asnwer. In the end you would end up hartting your childern more by staying togather when it wasn't working.
2006-06-28 04:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by Sekkennight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should both pray to God for an answer, and if one or the other does not then they will be delt with accordingly by God. If you don't believe what I'm saying, then you will also be delt with accordingly. =) Oh and btw. Have a nice day.
2006-06-28 04:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by Spirit-X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why even be married to their spouses if they're going to cheat? They should each divorce their spouses, neither one has any more sense than the other and they deserve each other.
2006-06-28 04:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need to be honest with themselves and honest with their partners and end it ( get divorced) then they can move on. Cheating is not the answer.
2006-06-28 13:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by Heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋