like he never talks on the phone.there's always long pauses on the phone. we dont talk about nothing
2006-06-27 21:10:39 · 13 answers · asked by Jennifer H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I had a friend who was the same way, but in person. Actually, he was only a non-talker when he was with his girlfriend. It pissed me off so much that I wrote down a list of 40 questions and just asked them when there were silences. I asked, "What thread count sheets do you use?", "If you were wearing a man-thong, would it be comfortable?". And just anything else random that I could think of before I met them up. It worked for one day, but then they went back to being boring. At least it was a start...
2006-06-27 21:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by rattwagon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry.
There are big differences in the way men and women use telephones! Men see the telephone as a communication tool. They use the telephone to send short messages to other people. A woman can visit her girlfriend for two weeks, and upon returning home, she will call the same friend and they will talk for three hours.
There are numerous humorous tales and observations about the differences between men and women - each has a measure of truth about them.
2006-06-27 21:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by bumperbuffer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have something that interests him to talk about or just let him call you therefore you know that he wants to actually be on the phone. Sometimes conversation is better had face to face anyway. He may be easily distracted on the phone with television, friends etc.
2006-06-27 21:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by LuvBug132 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him his respiration rate (how many times he breaths in a minute) then usually say good by and hang up the phone..the guy obviously doesn't like talking on the phone
2006-06-27 21:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by anne2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't like to talk on the phone. For him It's better to talk in person.
2006-06-28 01:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he don't feel like talking maybe you should just hang up?? lol.. I mean, think about the waste of time and the chance of raising your phone bill!! lol.. just a thought..
2006-06-27 21:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by savedbymercy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah my boyfriend does that too...... i just tell him to say somthing or to start a topic and when that one gets old then you chose a topic then have him pick a topic. It works for me good luck
2006-06-27 21:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him how did your day went.And ask what have you been up to.My ex boyfriend did that to me too but my new boyfriend talks on the phone and he does not wait long to ask stuff.We ask jokes back and forth to keep echother talking.
2006-06-27 21:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by - Allison 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him "baby why you not talking you don't love me anymore" by then y'all should start a conversation.
2006-06-27 21:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him how is he doing, and say u love him and ask if he has any problem, etc, if he is still not talking just say love u, and finish the call.
2006-06-27 21:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by rivers_of_life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋