2006-06-27 20:41:33 · 18 answers · asked by justhulice 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
it hurts .. especially if the guy is doing it for the first time too and don't know what he's doing.
2006-06-27 20:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... Its gonna feel different for every girl. Just because one girl cries it hurts bad doesn't mean that the next girl will. Really the only reason that it can cause pain is because
1. it breaks your hymen (something people can popping a girls cherry)
2. it has to stretch you so that it will fit inside you.
I don't know you or anything about you.. but dont rush to have sex and havin it with someone you hardly know means nuthin to you in the end, Having sex with someone you truely care about is going to feel alot better then someone who gives a shyt less about you. It can be both a positive and a negitive outcome. I truely hope that no one scares you anyway from havin sex because they say it hurts but I strongly recommend you thinkin it all the way through before you go though with it.
2006-06-28 03:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First-time sex shouldn't be painful, provided you are with someone you love and you feel completely relaxed with. You have to be completely ready for sex and totally comfortable with the idea. There should also be lots of foreplay to make sure you are well-lubricated. Provided all this is true, you shouldn't experience any pain.
However, if a girl feels unsure about having sex, or unsure about the person she's having it with, her vaginal muscles will tense up, which can cause a lot of pain. This is true of any sex, not just first-time sex.
Be safe, have fun.
2006-06-28 03:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Gilmore♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The exact age, physical and mental condition of the chick in question will decide the feeling. Also, first time doesn't make any difference, if the sitution is ripe. So is the hurting also.
2006-06-28 03:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can hurt like hell. Try and relax as much as you can. Do as much foreplay as possible. When you get popped the first time you may even bleed a little. not trying to scare you, just making sure you are aware what might happen.
2006-06-28 03:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by late_sleeper35 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts! and if hes got a monster look out take your time and make sure your ready don't let him just jam it in there use for play to loosen up and use some kind of lubrication so it goes in easier
2006-06-28 04:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by mickeymom2boyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Terrible.
2006-06-28 04:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like all the other ppl said... IT HURTS!!!! lol. And most women bleed there first time or two (i highly doubt anyone wanted to hear that, but oh well lol)
2006-06-28 03:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by XxxManDiiExxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it generally hurts...i havent acually met a girl (and i am one) that said it was great the first time. its more like ok lets get through this....
its gets better after the first couple times though!! :)
2006-06-28 03:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by krimsonfurey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feels like 2 minutes of pain and a lifetime of regret
2006-06-28 03:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋