I was born on 16 may 1961 and my housband on 12 october 1957. We met 30 years ago and are married from 1981, and he stoped having sex with me from 8 years. We still live together and I tried everything to make him sleep with me again, but nothing works. He refuses even to communicate with me on this subject. I want to know what to do. I miss sex with him alot, and I still love him, and I don`t whant to divorce........or should I ???????????? Is there any chanse to get him back ? Please, somebody help me !
2006-06-27 20:25:57 · 15 answers · asked by irina b 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
He's probably cheating on you. Or he maybe gay. Or worse yet, both.
2006-06-27 20:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by audioslave355 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever the reason, you shouldn't blame yourself. Live life to the fullest! Start dressing up and going out, he'll notice. Play hard and act like you are the happiest you've ever been. If you are like me, you probably pretty much do everything around the house... If so just laze around. Laundry will pile and trash will flood over, but the truth will come out when he feels that his home is upside down!!!
2006-06-28 03:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Amy Sharp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, and I thought I had it bad. Maybe he has been having some erectile problems and it's not you. He'll have to see the doctor on his own to get a prescription, but you could always nudge him.
Record every commercial for Viagra, cialias, etc.. that you see. Then go Clockwork Orange on him and tie him down and make him watch. Maybe not that drastic, but get some info for him and leave it out for him to read without actually implying that he has a problem.
2006-06-28 03:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by Juice Box 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he has a disease and he doesnt want to spread it to you but is too ashamed to tell you about it. Or like somone else said he is cheating or gay...no matter what the reason he is not respecting you by not at least communicating with you about it. You have the right to know why he stopped and doesnt want to anymore. I say think long and hard about staying with him. Most likely if he wont communicate with you about it conseling isnt going to work either. good luck to you
2006-06-28 09:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by magdamay34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you have to draw the line somewhere. Suggest some therapy. This is a sad situation, and if you aren't getting any, you should really consider your options. Is he affectionate to you in ANY way? I'm sorry, but the first answerer may be correct if he is acting this way.
2006-06-28 03:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by The Apple Chick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u must take ur hubby into confidence and try to know the reason as to why he is not interested in being physical with you. Or if u have confidence in any member of his family, can seek help of them. Gooooood Luck
2006-06-28 03:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need some help from someone who knows something - not just us yahoos on Yahoo! I would urge you to find a counselor or a minister or someone in your community who can sit down with you (and your husband, if/when you can get him to) and talk about whatever is wrong.
Best wishes to you, and God bless.
2006-06-28 03:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by bobhayes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you miss the sex with him
then you said your living with each other for 8 years with out sex
you still can remember how it's feel
my advice to you is move on don't look back
you will got some better than him
2006-06-28 03:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by bandori 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH, If he has no medical problems then he is seeing someone else. If it has been 8 yrs and he has not even tried anything with you, I would probably leave him(but I'm not wearing your shoes) He** walk around naked all day see if that works.......Good Luck
God Bless
2006-06-28 03:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by snuggels102 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really tough! well how about have you gone through mariage counselling?....you got to seek some professional help before you can encourage your husband to come out on his own....have yourself evaluated first....and try to see the root of it....but i suggest pray first about everything! commit everything now to God. and He will guide you all the way....cause see ...now it's only you who can see the problem....you cant just force your husband on something he cant see and appreciate....start everything from yourself.
2006-06-28 03:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by maic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn im sorry... maybe you should rent a movie with a hot sex scene and after watchin it jus start givin him head... if that doesnt work, you should threaten divorce
2006-06-28 03:29:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋