How many would not mind marrying at a young age, let's say 20? Both men and women!
2006-06-27 20:21:40 · 18 answers · asked by Blend 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I won't do that... 20 is sooo early
2006-06-27 20:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats a bit young. Mind you, I wasn't much older when I got married (23). But I also believe that if your in love it can work no matter what age, as long as your mature enough. Then again, if your truely in love, you wouldn't mind waiting either. I think its all based on maturity though. If you want to constantly go out and get drunk, and hang out at parties, you are bound to find more bumps in the road than someone who was willing to do things with their soon-to-be/new husband/wife. It does take work, and constant admiration, and at times I believe that those who are young are to selffish to think of what's better for the two of you as a couple vs just yourself. Sometimes just being a young married couple, you can constantly be under fire by those who think it's a mistake, and that can take a toll on your marriage.
2006-06-28 03:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by The Girl Next Door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married when I was 17 and my husband was 18. We have been married for 7 years (as of April), and we have a 6 year old daughter. It worked for us. but not everyone is ready to settle down at that age. They don't mind popping out kids, but don't want a commitment to another person. Most I see now days, don't even have a commitment to their kid(s). SO SAD!
2006-06-27 21:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Just_Me♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally, i think marrying before age 23 yrs is considered a hasty marriage. some couples who have been dating for 5 yrs still end up regretting that they were not yet 'prepared' to live a married life. i think it's best that we should allow ourselves the luxury of being individuals while we are able to, and only settle down when we believe that life has been lived to it's fullest extent, before moving on the next course - marriage.
2006-06-27 20:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Director 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still young ...be young ! I moved in with my bf at 16 got pregnant at 17 and got married at 21 ... we have had so many problams Im still here and still married but have many regrets ..he put me thru hell hurt me so bad he wasnt ready for the commitment ..live a lil ..make (sure) your ready to give yourself 100% to that (one) person ..!! Id have to say thru my experiance be young enjoy yourself dont try to grow up so fast being an adult lasts along time your only 20 once ..i sacrificed myself as a person i gave up my life for him and well im just not sure it was worth it ..we wer so young . I regret not waiting ..If your concidering marriage try living together 1st u dont truly kno someone till u have lived with them ..
2006-06-27 20:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as both of you are ready,then go for it. there are several factors that you need to consider. you should be prepared in every aspects,may it be spiritual,emotional,physical and mental. marriage is not a game that you can just stop anytime you want to coz you are tired. personally,marriage for me is wonderful. if you would just take a look at the positive side and disregard negative thoughts. problems may occur but always bear in mind that we need to learn from our own mistakes. in that way, we will grow into a better person.
2006-06-27 21:12:47 · answer #6 · answered by sweetsexything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea its sounds good to havin ur girl as ur wife all of ur life but u should think about the other things too.cuz young people doesn't listen the other in an argument and bein angry much more than adults.u have to think about the money could u do everything that she want from u?u would want to do all the things and u will try ur best and it will make u threadbare and ur feelings too.
think twice
2006-06-27 21:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why marry at all?
I guess there's no better way to say that you love and trust someone by making it a major legal and financial hassle if they ever leave you.
2006-06-27 20:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by The Electric Skeptic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that wish I had not but it has made me who I am today! I was 17 at the time we are no longer together but share 2 teenage children.
2006-06-27 20:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by Sister Sandy (RN) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married when i just turned 19 & my baby daddy was 18
2006-06-27 20:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by MARSEE39 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you have been together long enough and know you love the person then sure... but i know a couple and the girl is 20 and they have been together for only 5 months and they are ingaged and planning the wedding... all i have to say is good luck to them!
2006-06-27 20:30:35 · answer #11 · answered by sarahdancer123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋