okay, so i know that i like guys definetly. the problem is, i like girls and want relationships with them. however, i don't get erections from girls, but from guys. i think i just want myself to think that i'm bi. but i wanna know what you think.
2006-06-27 20:13:55 · 15 answers · asked by thomas. 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
sounds like your really gay , but you like being friends with girls , and there's nothing wrong with that!
2006-06-27 20:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Fortune 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are most likely gay.and are having trouble dealing with it. You say that you want relationships with women but cannot become arroused by them. The key factor here is the word want.
If you want a relationship it indicates that you feel that being with women will make you more normal. Most people that are bi or hetro just have these relationships ; in other words they just happen. It sounds more like you are having trouble comming to terms with your gender preference. Do your friends and family know of your gender preference. You sound like you may be very young and living in a situation where same sex preference is not accepted. Be careful but seek professional counseling.
2006-06-28 03:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by David N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, stud, I think you're most likely gay. You have the sexual attraction to guys, which is fine. But I think that you might be trying to talk yourself into liking girls.
I know I've done the same thing when I was a teenager. I tried very hard to like girls and for a time I was hoping that I was at least bi-sexual. Nope!
2006-06-28 23:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by dylanwalker1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a gay, as if you don't get erection from girls that means your liking of the girls does not signify your sexual attraction towards girls but you are the mere admirer of their beauty. So, you can't be bi-sexual.
2006-06-28 03:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're bi. Sexuality is very hard to define, as there's all sorts of variations and differences for each human being.
Some people are 100 percent straight: they could never even think of even being in love with someone of the same sex, and their biggest want in life is a heterosexual marriage.
On the other hand, some people are 100 percent gay/lesbian: they can't even consider the idea of being in love with someone of the opposite sex and very much want a life partner of the same sex.
The "problem" in a society such as ours that wants to affix labels and put things in neat little boxes is that these categories only apply to small percentages.
They don't count in those who are transsexual (male brain born in female body or female brain in male body), asexual (not wanting sex at all, but nonsexual love) bisexual (loving both sexes to some degree), and the largest category of all, those who are "straight with an exception," i.e. bisexuals with a very strong preference for one gender but who, should they see/meet the right person of the nonpreferred gender, would love him or her.
From reading your post, I think you're definitely bisexual, or maybe you're gay, though emotionally attracted to feminine attributes but sexually attracted to masculine attributes. We all find different attributes attractive in different people.
For example, I'm female-bodied (though male-brained), "butch," attracted to women, and very much attracted to androgynous or feminine appearances. However, I also cannot even begin to comprehend the traditional "femme" or "lady" mindset and want an equal partner rather than a subservient partner.
I hope you find fulfillment in your life, whomever you're with. *hugs you*
2006-06-28 03:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by Mice Are Nice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the only one who can tell. Bu based on your explanation you're more on the gay side. It really doesn't matte whether you're gay or bi, the most important think is whatever makes you happy. It's yourself so don't think of others.
2006-06-28 07:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by marky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not gay nor bisexual. during puberty, that can happen sometimes in a guys life. they will suddenly be "attracted" to guys and even fantasize about them sometimes. you mentioned you want relationships with girls, so you maybe might be more interested in BOYS now and GIRLS later.
2006-06-28 23:46:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont get sexually arroused by girls then i belive that you would be gay and not bi. but that is just my opinoin. only you knows then answer to your question.
2006-06-28 03:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by amy d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are gay because if you were a bisexual then you would only preffer the men then if you are gay you still enjoy wemon and men
2006-06-28 16:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by icey girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bi be proud your bi
2006-06-28 03:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by Andy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋