My gf has just tested pregnancy positive. Sadly, we don't need it now. She's complaining that her chances of getting pregnant again in the future will be very slim if she does "another" abortion now.
So what's the best way of eliminating this pregnancy without putting her condition in danger?
2006-06-27 20:05:26 · 15 answers · asked by myname 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
There is a pill she can take if she is in the very early stages of the pregnancy..it will terminate the pregnancy without a surgical abortion..you should go to planned parenthood and get it very soon because after a certain # of weeks you cant take it anymore..good luck
2006-06-27 20:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by kelkel0514 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your baby and put it up for adoption... There are crisis pregnancy centers out there that want to help you through this and can help you make the right decisions... Who knows, you may change your mind and decide to keep that precious innocent life that you and your girlfriend created together. Let God take control of your life, and do the right thing, and you will be rewarded. Life isn't always "convenient" and aborting an innocent baby because it's just not a good time is wrong. What if your mother had aborted you? You wouldn't be here today. Don't you wonder girl or boy? Blue eyes or brown? Who will she look like? That baby is already a little person who has a right to live and can already feel pain. There are plenty of good families out there that will adopt a baby if you are sure that you don't want to keep your baby... so do the right thing, and if you need help, contact a crisis pregnancy center to help you. A few months is little to give to spare that baby's life.
2006-06-27 20:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Cat 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Getting an abortion won't eliminate chances of pregnancy in the future. Who told you that?
Just have the baby and let a family adopt it that deserves to give it a better home than you can.
2006-06-27 20:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by ~∂Їβ~ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hello, birth control before not abortion after.
If it mattered that much then she would have taken the necessary precautions before having sex.
And you should live by the mantra of "No glove, no love." until you are ready for the responsibility of parenthood.
It's harsh but true. By the way, you could always beat the crap out of her and push her down the stairs.
Please don't do that, I'm rambling. Go to a clinic and ask them the best options. If abortion could risk her life or ability to have children in the future, then maybe adoption is a viable solution. And it beats murder or assault any day.
2006-06-27 20:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Juice Box 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I sympathize with you both. Do not understand why more precautions were not taken to keep from having a pregnancy, since you don't want it.. Sounds like your girlfriend does want this one... To keep from harming her chances of someday getting pregnant for keeps. Carry this one full term, contact a lawyer for Adoptive parents. Some pay Medical bills for pregnancy. Then your girlfriend will be assured of her possibly in the future being able to have a child for her own. Because while you are throwing LIFE away, other couples are wanting a child to LOVE.
Understand Rubber Band?
2006-06-29 14:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by 4mom 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Did you already tried using Pregnancy Miracle mechanism? Go to this url : http://www.pregnancyinfertilecure.com/ . This will absolutely save yourself!
2014-07-14 04:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't punish the innocent child for your mistake
don't aborte your gf it will be dengerous for too
let the baby born and adopted to someone, there are many looking for such a baby.
take care and safe the life of others
2006-06-27 20:20:33 · answer #7 · answered by Counsellor 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Practice safe sex.Or no sex.Don't get pregnant in the first place.
Don't punish the innocent child for your mistake.
If you don't want it give it up for adoption.
2006-06-27 20:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
uh-oh! better consult your doctors about that if it concerns her health. Do it fast and quick.
2006-06-27 20:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by shih 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T "ELIMINATE" THE BABY
Both of you should "step up" and take responsibility for your actions.
If you feel you are too young to raise a child,
then give baby up for adoption. I'm sure there
are many parents that would love to bring
new "bundle of joy" to complete their happy home.
2006-06-27 20:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 5⤋