my girlfriend tells me that in her culture and religion she has to be with the first person she sleeps with that being me. is this true her religion is catholic. i do love her and want to be with her. she says if we ever split up that she can never be with another person again .
2006-06-27 19:19:01 · 7 answers · asked by Ding 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Are you insinuating that she might be lying to you? If you love her and want to be with her, then where did the trust issues come from?
2006-06-27 19:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is lying to you. Unfortunately sometimes girls (and male persons) say things because they want to stay with you or control you. She can make up a religion in her head and say to you whatever she wants to. She sounds insecure, and you don't want to stay with her out of pity now do you? The Catholic Church has no such teaching, not really, nope. The person you are married to is the person you are to stay with for life. You aren't married to her. In fact, toss this up to her: she has sinned because she had premarital sex. She needs to go to confession, that sinner. Tell her to confess her lies as well while she is in there. When she comes out, ask her if she believes God has forgiven her. She should say yes. Then say that the sacrament of reconciliation has made her new in the eyes of the Church. That being the case, her sin is gone...so she doesn't have to worry anymore about it.
remember, she is trying to trap you. Don't be a sucker. She is stalker material, mark my words. Run from her in any direction as quickly as possible.
2006-06-28 02:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by Iamstitch2U 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's a cultural thing, but not a religious one. In Catholocism, one must marry before sleeping with someone, but when death or something of the sort arises, they can move on... Just no divorce mumbo jumbo... :)
2006-06-28 02:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by laydlo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This Albanian girl is clever. But... usually Albanians are not catholic, but Moslem. Check it out..
2006-07-02 03:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Dragon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She told me the same thing a few years ago. Don't buy into it.
2006-06-28 02:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by blewz4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes catholic thats not true.
2006-06-28 02:22:30 · answer #6 · answered by I ♥ Jesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away
2006-06-28 02:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋