I never loved my husband. But I do like him. He is a very nice person, he loves me very deeply, treats me like a princess, and he is rich too..:) After 6 years of marriage he wants to have babies but I am not sure. Should I go on with this life or divorce him and look for love? Is being loved enough?
2006-06-27 19:05:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I told him that I was not interested with him when we first met. But he did everything to change my mind. Nice words, gifts,love, everything....I was young (22) and he was 33. .. I started to like him and we got married in 4 months..It didn't seem like a big deal for me....but now..Am I a gold digger?
2006-06-27 19:41:36 · update #1
its sad cause i really didnt think i loved my husband either. but now that hes gone im hurting so much. just really think about and try to seperate to see if there is anything there, you may be surprised
2006-06-27 20:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by grniz07 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. If you feel you are missing something you should at least do a trial separation and go from there. We don't always marry our soul mates. I feel the opposite with my husband....i love him but allot of times i hate him. We all think the grass is greener on the other side. I would not have any kids till i knew for sure.
2006-06-27 19:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by lynn21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not love him how can you show a child that kind of relationship is a loving one. To bring a child into a relationship is a serious commitment for both of you. I'm not telling you to leave your husband just weigh all your options first. Look deep into your heart for the answer and it will come to you.
2006-06-27 19:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by seferena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't divorce him. I believe in bad "karma" at the end. You still need more time to love him. For me, with that attitude and respect that he has, its very impossible if ill never fall in love with him. Take your time, sooner or later you will realize that you can't live without him. Give him a chance to have a baby, this might be one way of falling in love with him. Don't look for love, love is there at your side the all time. don't be blind. Go on with the life you have. Your one lucky woman!
2006-06-27 19:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by shaznay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you married of money? funny how life works out, you get what you want now you want ot see ifthere is more out there for you. i think you should leave this poor guy and let him have a chance to find true love, you have been with him for 6 years and not given him a child or even loved him. he deserves to be loved , you deserve to be loved too. the bestthing to do is leave him and find true love, but i warn you , you may get hurt because what goes around comes around.good luck.
2006-06-27 19:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are in it for the money...so you are a gold digger. Enjoy the money and have babies because you will never be that lucky in love and if you are...you wouldn't notice.
2006-06-27 19:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by galaxydivide 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u sure its only u like him??? think of ur life without him can u stand it? its ur decision but i guess as long as ur husband loves and treats u like a princess and rich and nice and all that then no relation is just perfect ...dont search for the impossible
2006-06-27 19:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by ghadoud2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not ever have children with him, it will only make things messier. Divorce him, without love for the man this marriage is already doomed.
2006-06-27 19:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well continue with ur life because ur with a rich guy here. since he love u more then anything than love is enough. wait! u were married and u weren't in love and y did u married him if u were not in love?
2006-06-27 19:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you marry him if you did not love him??
Why do you want to leave and are you truly unhappy to be with him?? OR are you just bored???
You need to be honest with yourself before you can be a happy person.
If you really do not love him and want to divorce then do it, be honest to yourself and to your husband..
You know what you want and if it is not there then it is not there..
2006-06-27 19:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by Butterflycry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very hurt if I had children with someone who didn't love me. I would say let him go so you can find love for your self and give him a chance to find someone who will love him back.
2006-06-27 19:10:04 · answer #11 · answered by merivel7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋