He is 33 and ran off with a 21 year old backpacker (from a differnet country) and is over there now. Is he a retard or what?! What are your thoughts on this twerp?
2006-06-27 18:36:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know it's very heartbreaking for you, and I think it's absolutely ridiculous what he did! What the hell was it? Love at first sight? Just give it time, and you'll end up getting the last laugh. Now just sit back and watch........
2006-06-27 18:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. If by some miracle he has really found the love of his life, then you weren't meant to be together anyway. What is more likely is that this "instant marriage" will not last as long as the 8 years you had. You can only control your own life, so stop worrying about what he is doing and become the person you have always thought you could be, and find someone who wants to stay with you.
2006-06-28 02:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by UpanishadMorning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a loser. No respect for you or the 8 year relationship.
I went through kinda the same thing recently. 7 1/2 year relationship down the tubes.
She cheated by going out with a guy 12 years older than her behind my back .
I hope you ex realizes he messed up. He's an ***hole and makes guys like myself look bad.
2006-06-28 01:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by alysonhell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of difficult being in this situation, isnt it!but there are worst situation, believe me!!I think the guy is a total JERK!I dont know how much love he had for you or how much he loved the girl he married with but he did a really **** thing!the fact that you are asking this question on Yahoo means that this troubles you but look for a backpacker also!!!Forget this JERK and continue living!
Goodluck
2006-06-28 01:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by kreolkavi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for 8 years and he never proposed maybe he was cheating on you the whole time and felt that he loved the backpacker more and went off with her... well he's an a s s so dont you worry im sure theres someone better for you!
2006-06-28 01:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by lucky one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he wasted 8 years of your life for a tramp over there.
well im 37 m looking if i can help .
time to move on there young lady . time to clean the cholk board of and start over again ( i hate to put it that way)
Your going to make it Was he you first ? was the children in this. I hope not
i fell very sorry for you.
if i can help you can im me or email me at tasman69@verizon.net
2006-06-28 01:43:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex who I was with for 11 yrs. was 27 when he married a girl he met online who was 18...Over a year later he's miserable and wanting me back...The grass isn't always greener. LOL. You and I both deserve better.
2006-06-28 03:11:28 · answer #7 · answered by rcp5276 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel hurt or sorry. Feel sorry for the poor girl he's off with. You should feel relieved and say "GOOD RIDDANCE". And get on with your life girl! Don't sit and moan and grieve for that retard. Life ain't worth it!
2006-06-28 05:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by MintyMint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he jumped into the relationship a bit quick, I agree with the other people who asnwered your question.
2006-06-28 01:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, before your divorce, he was already cheating on you with her.
No offense but, it's only been 5 months and they are already married.
Like you said, JERK!
You are better off.
Enjoy your freedom :-)
2006-06-28 01:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋