Okay so here lately i have been wondering what has become of one of my first loves i was 16 when i was with him...I'm 23 now..But i would love to know what has happened to him. If he's married or even still alive.But i am married now and very happy in my marriage..Okay so my question is...Is this wrong of me to want to know these things? Or find out about him?
Thank for all the answers!
2006-06-27 18:33:56 · 13 answers · asked by ~♡~julietcs~♡~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I understand why you're thinking about him, but for the sake of your relationship now, do yourself a favor and just write the ex off. If he's great or if he's dead, nothing good can come of tracking him down. How would you feel knowing your husband went looking for one of his past sweethearts?
Exes should remain where they are.... in your memory.
Looking for him will be also looking for trouble. Trust me, best to just let it go.
2006-06-27 18:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Talamascaa 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Love is beyond all time reckonings.Be happy with the present content than mull over the past resent.
2006-06-27 18:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by sastry m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as your husband knows you want to know about him, and if you do find him, introduced him to your husband.
it is like the old saying, CURIOSITY KILLS THE CAT, and i also added to the phrase. THAT IS WHY YOU SEE SO MANY ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD. i hope i don't offend anyone with that statement, i used to be a professional driver and would see a lot of cats dead on the side of the road
2006-06-27 18:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by sister cool breeze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with wanting to know what happened to old friends. I mean it could be interesting to know what's happened throughout the years.
2006-06-27 18:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i dont think so bcause at one point in time he was a major part of your life and you can't not think about them but u should look him up but before contacting him make sure your hubby knows because u dont want to screw up a good thing over an old fling. u no?
2006-06-27 18:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a natural thing to never forget ur first love. people remember their first love until they die. i would not say it is wrong to wonder but i would say it is not wise to go searching for him considering u claim to be happily married. would u be alright with it if ur husband went seeking his first love? how would that make u feel?
2006-06-27 18:37:59 · answer #6 · answered by wedjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is unusual to wonder about your first :-)
Everyone remembers their first. Not the second, or the third, just the first.
If you loved him, I think it's only natural to want to know that he has found the happiness you have found.
2006-06-27 18:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a great idea to know a bout old friends. just having some news! but be care full! if you know by asking about him your feelings may become awake. that could make you depress.
2006-06-27 18:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by arezoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong you need to get in touch with old friends and catch up on stuff and maybe you ex will talk to you and tell you how hes been and then you'll be happy knowing hes ok
2006-06-27 18:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by soccerchickym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just curiosity. I don't think it's wrong as long as you don't try to pursue anything else once you find information about your ex-love.
2006-06-27 18:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋