I know his is not and never will but i keep having this dream that he is.
2006-06-27 18:11:50 · 21 answers · asked by furgyanddaisy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think i am just scared cause this is the longest i have been in a relationship. I know he isn't cheating because every time i tell him i had another cheating dream he gets upset. he doesn't want me thinking like that.
2006-06-28 08:05:53 · update #1
dreams are dreams, it is all in your head, he isnt cheating he loves you and he wouldnt do that to you? dont worry about it, forget it. it was just a dream. keepp that in your head it was just a dream!!!
2006-06-27 18:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT TO BE MEAN, BUT HOW EXACTLY IS IT THAT YOU'RE SO POSITIVE HE'S NOT CHEATING? I'D LIKE TO KNOW, ALL WOMEN WOULD LIKE TO KNOW THE FOOL PROOF WAY TO KNOW THIS.
YOU DON'T KNOW IF HE'S CHEATING OR NOT! FIRST YOU NEED TO REALIZE THAT IT'S ALWAYS A POSSIBILITY YOUR PARTNER IS CHEATING. MAN OR WOMAN, DOESN'T MAKE A DIFFERENCE. NOW I DON'T KNOW HIM AND I CAN'T SAY FOR SURE YOUR DREAMING IS A SURE SIGN OR WARNING THAT HE'S CHEATING.
BUT YOU DO NEED TO TAKE IT INTO CONSIDERATION AND OPEN YOUR EYES. DON'T BE PARANOID AND START ACCUSING HIM WHEN HE'S A MINUTE OR TWO LATE, JUST TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND KEEP AN EYE ON HIM. REMEMBER YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO PROTECT WHAT'S YOURS! YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO PROTECT YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR HUSBAND, YOUR FAMILY AND IF THAT IS BEING THREATENED THEN YOU FIND OUT AND THEN MAKE A DECISION. TO STAY OR NOT TO STAY.
LEAVING ISN'T ALWAYS THE ANSWER, BUT NEITHER IS STAYING. EVERY SITUATION IS DIFFERENT AND ONLY YOU WOULD KNOW WHAT'S BEST FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
NOW THE OTHER THING IS MAYBE YOU'RE DREAMING HE'S CHEATING CUZ YOU'RE HAVING SINFUL THOUGHTS OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT HUH? JUST SAYING. YOU HAVE TO LOOK AT IT FROM ALL ANGLES. SO GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND TAKE CARE.
2006-06-28 01:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I can relate. I think, for my situation anyway, that it somehow reflects that I somehow feel a little insecure. Not that my husband is actually cheating or anything, but that I wish that I could have more time with him. He is very busy with work, and community service (Volunteer firefighter, Search and Rescue Sheriff Posse, and on the Reader Panel Group for a local newspaper). It bothers me too that I have those dreams, and it is always about him choosing the other woman. Maybe it is because I need to do more for the relationship....But I do know how you feel...
2006-06-28 01:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dreams are what is happening in your subconscious mind. True or not true, you have anxiety about his fidelity. Maybe the problem is all yours, maybe your instincts know something is wrong. You need to spend some time trying to resolve all of this with your conscious mind. Don't get upset and confront him over a dream, but follow up on things. My guess is that you are purposely overlooking facts and circumstances, then when you sleep your fears of the worst take over.
Give yourself some peace. Get confident of the true facts. Maybe all you need to do is get an investigator to tell you what he does when you aren't around so that you can rule out your suspicions.
Best to you!
2006-06-28 01:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem. The dream could also indicate that you are unconsciously picking up hints and cues that your significant other is not being completely truth or is not fully committed in the relationship.
2006-06-28 01:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by sharebear1967 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibilities.
1. He is cheating.
2. You are too worried about it and its affecting your dreams.
3. Someone close to you is cheating.
4. Spiritual entities are against your marriage and are lying to you.
2006-06-28 01:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by silverironrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not listen to the first answer.
in fact dreams of cheating are usually re enforcing the fact that he is not, or would not in your mind. maybe subconsciously you suspect him of distrust, or betrayal. but According to a dream dictionary, it is the opposite when you dream of cheating spouses, it could very well be YOU who is thinking of doing the cheating, and wont let your mind consciously think about it.
2006-06-28 01:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by sobrien 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay close attention to the dreams in detail and then pay attention to your surroundings usually when I have dreams like that it telling me something I need to know or it is someone close to me.
2006-06-28 01:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by kiwikofii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just think your either insecure, or it could be a sixth sense. I always thougtht my man was cheating. I found out 3 years later he was.... So i'm kinda cautious about dreams
2006-06-28 01:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by blak_gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!!! I am so understanding what you mean...I know my husband is not also....but i have them too. Usually bout once a month...and its a certain gurl i hate this gurl and don't understand why i'm having these dreams...its soo weird! And its not that i don't trust him i do. I just wish i didnt have these stupid dreams!
2006-06-28 01:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by ~♡~julietcs~♡~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋